http://boards.weddingbee.com/ Weddingbee Boards: Forum: Encore - Recent Posts en Mon, 13 Feb 2012 23:48:14 +0000 http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/i-read-his-divorce-decreehave-you-done-the-same#post-3225307 Mon, 13 Feb 2012 15:39:06 +0000 cjfs 3225307@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p><a href="#post-263001">@TheEncoreBride:</a>&nbsp; hi there! I saw your post from 2 years ago. MY FI is currently getting his divorce and i reckon the same will happen to him (and by consequence to me), BUt i have a question, why doesnt the ex wife have to share her retirement and assets with him? Thanks</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/this-is-my-encore-weddingweird-to-have-a-shower-and-b-party#post-3221822 Sun, 12 Feb 2012 21:22:43 +0000 asianyoushi 3221822@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>i didnt have bridal shower or bachlorette party first time around so we are doing it this time. :)</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/what-did-you-do-with-ring-from-first-marriage/page/2#post-3216935 Sat, 11 Feb 2012 15:59:37 +0000 Cupcake2012 3216935@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p><a href="#post-3214311">@AmeliaBedelia:</a>&nbsp; Go Mom! That's awesome!</p> <p><a href="#post-3214886">@lorie:</a>&nbsp; SOOO beautiful! Wow, what a unique design! Thanks for the pic! :)</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/giddy-038-at-the-same-time#post-3215040 Fri, 10 Feb 2012 22:21:44 +0000 FutureMrsHoneybee 3215040@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>You have every right to feel as giddy as any bride does. Congratulations!!! :)</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/giddy-038-at-the-same-time#post-3215031 Fri, 10 Feb 2012 22:14:27 +0000 misskittykakes 3215031@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>Yay for you!!! You should feel giddy....you deserve it!! I am an encore bride too, and my FI has never been married either.&nbsp;When I married before it was becasue I was dating a man at the point in my life when people got married...not becasue he was 'right' for me.&nbsp; I now realize the difference and am giddy as well!!&nbsp; I have a beautiful daughter too :)....FI loves her like his own.&nbsp; Never feel silly for being over the moon in love...it's freaking hard to find!</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/giddy-038-at-the-same-time#post-3214998 Fri, 10 Feb 2012 22:01:59 +0000 MissTX 3214998@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>That kind've brought tears to my eyes. My mom just turned 50 and is still married to my father. If for some reason they didn't last, I would be so happy for her to find someone that made her feel the way you describe your man makes you feel. Age has literally nothing to do with the giddy or the happiness you feel...it's LOVE :)</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/i-was-a-bad-wife#post-3214952 Fri, 10 Feb 2012 21:38:33 +0000 lorie 3214952@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>Take a load off your shoulders! Here's what "bad wives" do:</p> <p>Cheat, lie, take drugs/abuse alcohol, nag maliciously, seek to destroy their spouse emotionally, intentionally seek to harm their spouse's ego, disrespect or sabotage the family's financial goals, withhold sex, do everything but love, honor, cherish etc, take advantage of their partner's weaknesses and exploit them, manipulate their partners with malice, seek to control the other person...and so on. The rest of what people do is human. Living with another human being is extremely difficult, but love, patience&nbsp;and respect should rescue it from being impossible. Sharing a life with someone you love is a privilege. If both parties try to live by the Golden Rule - treat the other as you want to be treated - it'll be fine :)</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/i-was-a-bad-wife#post-3214927 Fri, 10 Feb 2012 21:27:25 +0000 lorie 3214927@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p><a href="#post-3186441">@khf777:</a>&nbsp;&nbsp;Yes - "damaged goods" is exactly how&nbsp;I feel about myself a lot of the time. Fortunately, with the help of people who truly love me, and one of them is my fiance, I realize that it was my ex who was damaged - totally broken actually. He treats our children, particularly our teenage daughter the way he treated me. It's taken a long time to define him: Narcissistic personality disorder and passive-aggressive. It takes time to get past it and feel whole again.</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/what-did-you-do-with-ring-from-first-marriage/page/2#post-3214886 Fri, 10 Feb 2012 21:15:55 +0000 lorie 3214886@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p><a href="#post-3214283">@Cupcake2012:</a>&nbsp;&nbsp;Thank you! ...here'a a&nbsp;pic...white &amp; yellow gold, w 3 diamonds/1 sapphire each side total diamond weight .75 carats. Center stone is suspended like a tension setting</p> <p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <a href="#post-3214283"><img src="http://bios.weddingbee.com/pics/182954/ring_004.JPG" /></a>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <img src="http://bios.weddingbee.com/pics/182954/ring_007.JPG" /></p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/giddy-038-at-the-same-time#post-3214783 Fri, 10 Feb 2012 20:47:28 +0000 Keltaena 3214783@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>It's awesome! I wish everyone could experience such giddiness--at any age. I'm glad you finally get to be whole and happy.</p>