http://boards.weddingbee.com/ Weddingbee Boards: Forum: June 2009 - Recent Posts en Tue, 14 Feb 2012 00:57:09 +0000 http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/yay-for-june-060609/page/2#post-1055858 Mon, 21 Jun 2010 08:41:51 +0000 doublemint921 1055858@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>HAPPY BELATED 1st ANNIVERSARY!!! I can't believe it's already been a year!! Crazy how time flies. I'm loving married life and I hope you ladies are too. Not sure if anyone still reads this but I wanted to wish everyone a Happy Anniversary, even if it's&nbsp; two weeks late. Best wish in your future. I hope you all are very happy together for years and years to come!! :)</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/literally-1-month-to-goand-i-should-be-excited#post-993614 Wed, 26 May 2010 05:30:56 +0000 JuneBride_26June2010 993614@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>Exactly, @Jennifer_espos! it is SO incredibly frustrating to CONSTANTLY turn down all our friends "sorry we can't do that - we have NO money"...and yup - if we had a dollar for every time we've said "after the wedding" we'd literally be millionaires.</p> <p>And hotchild - that's exactly what it is...i HATE the feeling of resenting my wedding - because again - it's what i've wanted for SO long - but yeah i almost am...even my hubby said, the other day "once this 'damn' wedding is over"...</p> <p>I have to remind myself how beautiful it'll be but maaaaaannnnnnnnnn</p> <p>i'm going in for a hair cut/trim tonight - and my stylist is awesome and does like a 20 minute head massage while shampooing my hair (and i'm in a massage chair...i LOVE my salon! lol) and I can't tell you how much I'm looking forward to this tiny bit of pampering I'm getting! lol</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/literally-1-month-to-goand-i-should-be-excited#post-993590 Wed, 26 May 2010 05:18:21 +0000 hotchildinthecity 993590@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>I feel you.&nbsp; I'm just so stressed right now that I've started to resent the wedding for taking all my time and money.&nbsp; Although I am excited, I'm just tired of thinking about tables and RSVPs and flowers and whatever.&nbsp;</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/literally-1-month-to-goand-i-should-be-excited#post-993569 Wed, 26 May 2010 05:08:00 +0000 jennifer_espos 993569@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>Ditto.... to ALL of it.&nbsp; I'm over the planning, its really draining (I blame the wedding for why I'm sick right now... its a stretch, but I'm going with it).&nbsp; I think my main stressor is money.&nbsp;&nbsp;If I had a dollar for everytime I said, "We can do that after the wedding!", I'd be able to pay for a large chunk of the wedding.&nbsp; I'm broke, ever penny seems to be accounted for.&nbsp; And I miss my friends!&nbsp; They get to just do stuff, I can't right now :(</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/literally-1-month-to-goand-i-should-be-excited#post-993555 Wed, 26 May 2010 04:57:55 +0000 JuneBride_26June2010 993555@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>4.5 weeks to go - 31 days and counting!!!! again - don't get me wrong - part of me can't WAIT as I know it'll be beyond awesome!</p> <p>BUT SERIOUSLY. i guess i'm just having a freak-out day.</p> <p>plus - for the past TWO YEARS - alllllll that seems to come out of our mouths is "after the wedding we can do ______"</p> <p>i've posted before, too, about how last year I got a promotion which in reality while it paid more - was a bit of a pay-cut because my previous position was hourly with tons of overtime - and this new position had NO overtime...so without that overtime, i took a pretty decent "pay-cut"...with the PROMISE of after 6-months getting promoted and getting a HUGE pay-raise...thing is - they screwed up my training and now - instead of having gotten that pay raise back in february like I'd been expecting - and obviously would have been GREAT for the up-coming wedding...yeah my promotion will be hitting my paycheck TWO DAYS AFTER the wedding! so for the past year, too - i've not had ANY extra money that I THOUGHT I would have had which was what helped make my decision to take THIS position instead of the other higher-paying position I was offered at the same time (again, though - I have to add - I LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE my job, but it's frustrating).</p> <p>There's SO many things we've wanted to do / buy and haven't been able to because EVERYTHING is for the wedding. I lost 30 pounds last year but haven't been able to go clothes shopping because EVERY little bit of extra is for the wedding.</p> <p>AND to top it all of - i'm highly allergic to poison ivy/oak - and what do I have ALL over my neck and body right now? Yes, i went to the doc - have all the creams and it's going away but seriously - part of me just wants to scream!</p> <p>ok. just needed to get all that out. thank you. :D</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/literally-1-month-to-goand-i-should-be-excited#post-993528 Wed, 26 May 2010 04:40:28 +0000 Sage 993528@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>I'm right there with you date twin. (And I've only been planning since 3/09) But I am so ready for it to just be done. I know I'll enjoy the day, but all this last minute planning of minutae trying to work out details... I'm just so over it!</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/literally-1-month-to-goand-i-should-be-excited#post-993526 Wed, 26 May 2010 04:39:23 +0000 Ella1978 993526@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>I am ready to have the "getting ready" over with, but I don't want to rush THE DAY.&nbsp; I want it to feel like it's 3 weeks long!&nbsp; I know it won't but I am going to do my best to slow down and take everything in.</p> <p>24 days for me.. eeks.</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/literally-1-month-to-goand-i-should-be-excited#post-993525 Wed, 26 May 2010 04:36:31 +0000 JuneBride_26June2010 993525@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>but honestly after 2 years of planning I can not begin to tell you all how much I can't wait for it to be OVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!</p> <p>Yes - I'm excited for it to be here and I know it'll be awesome and beautiful, etc...etc...but wedding planning has practically consumed my life now for the past 2 years. My husband (remember, we're legal...) and I have only been together for 3.5 years - so for MORE time than we've been together - I've been planning this wedding!!!!!!</p> <p>Yes - we should have done this last year, but #1 we wouldn't have gotten the venue we wanted in such a short period of time and #2 I THOUGHT by waiting two years we'd have more money. Yeah - I can't tell you all how much I'm stressing out over $$$ right now. and - can I say, too - everyone IRL who keeps telling me "oooh stop stressing it'll be fine" - isn't IN <strong><em>MY</em></strong> shoes! stressing is what i do! lol. :p</p> <p>Anyone else more ready just to have it done and over with?</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/anyone-else-nervous-about-getting-the-good-vendors#post-508050 Sat, 28 Nov 2009 14:57:34 +0000 Amanda_B 508050@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>See if she will give you both a deal if you both reserve!&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Most vendors would love to do back to back gigs like that.</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/anyone-else-nervous-about-getting-the-good-vendors#post-436943 Thu, 29 Oct 2009 15:12:30 +0000 Tulip61110 436943@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>My wedding is also in June.&nbsp; So far, the only problem I have had of&nbsp;a vendor being booked on my date was a cellist for my ceremony and cocktail hour.&nbsp; It wasn't really that big of a deal though, because I found someone else that I am equally happy with.&nbsp; I think I have been pretty "on time" with getting vendors booked early enough to not have too many problems.</p> <p>P.S. If you hear of a good stylist in Philly please let me know!&nbsp; My wedding date is the day before yours so I won't&nbsp;be stealing&nbsp;her from you! <img src="http://boards.weddingbee.com/my-plugins/tinymce/jscripts/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/img/smiley-wink.gif" alt="Wink" title="Wink" /></p>