http://boards.weddingbee.com/ Weddingbee Boards Topic: Bridesmaid shoes en Sat, 30 Aug 2008 01:04:02 +0000 http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/bridesmaid-shoes-3#post-48822 Mon, 12 May 2008 16:59:31 +0000 piperbenjamin 48822@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>just ask now, it will save the pain of searching under pressure later on. if you havent gotten your dress in yet i might wait so you can try it on w the dress.</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/bridesmaid-shoes-3#post-48793 Mon, 12 May 2008 15:37:39 +0000 rebecca 48793@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>I would ask. I was in a wedding where the bride had originally not said anything, so we all figured that we could wear what we wanted. Yeah, that isn't what she meant. I had to go out to WALMART after the rehearsal dinner and buy the only silver shoes they had, which of course happened to be heinous!&nbsp; Luckily, the dress was long so no one could see them. =\</p> <p>So long story short: ask her.</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/bridesmaid-shoes-3#post-48789 Mon, 12 May 2008 15:33:46 +0000 suzanno 48789@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>Maybe you're all going barefoot? <img src="/my-plugins/tinymce/jscripts/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/icon_wink.gif" />&nbsp; Or possibly she just hasn't thought about it yet.&nbsp; Does she seem like the sort of bride who wants you all to wear the same shoes?&nbsp; If yes, maybe you could propose a couple of options that you like.&nbsp; If not necessarily, maybe ask what color/style of shoes she was thinking about having you wear.&nbsp; Hopefully she will just specify black sandals or something, and you can find your own.&nbsp; I would hesitate to just keep my mouth shut, in fear that some crazy shoe mandate would surface two weeks before the wedding, causing you a lot of stress.&nbsp; If you don't want to ask the bride, maybe you can email the MOH and have her find out?&nbsp; (I know, she procrastinates too...&nbsp; best I can come up with though.) </p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/bridesmaid-shoes-3#post-48750 Mon, 12 May 2008 14:39:10 +0000 Candi1024 48750@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>I don't see why you can't ask.&nbsp; Just ask if there is a particular shoe or color she would like you to wear, or if you could just pick them out on your own. </p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/bridesmaid-shoes-3#post-48749 Mon, 12 May 2008 14:36:48 +0000 MissyJenn 48749@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>Quick question...might be a stupid one...continuing on my sega about being a bridesmaid..</p> <p>The bride hasn't mentioned a thing about shoes yet. (The wedding is in August) And I don't want to open up my mouth either. (It's a long bridesmaid dress so i'm hoping it won't matter)&nbsp; Should I say anything or just keep my mouth shut and pray she won't bring it up? (the dress is in an emerald green color-Since I'm covering all the bridesmaid costs for myself, I really don't want to spend the money to either dye the shoes or buy ones that will go with the dress-unless they're in a tasteful color that I can wear again) </p> <p>You know it's funny...I'm just a bridesmaid who's more paranoid and excited about the plans than the maid of honor is! (it's just going to be the two of us) </p> <p>(the dress has been ordered off netbride.com and coming in July so here's hoping!;-) (keep you all updated on that experience later!) (the MOH ordered hers so late that hers is coming 2 weeks prior to the wedding! ;-) (I know it's not supposed to be funny but when I found out that SHE was procrasting over it, that's just ridiculous!) </p> <p>&nbsp;Thank you all very much in advance.</p>