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Weddingbee Boards Topic: We Got Married! http://boards.weddingbee.com/ Weddingbee Boards Topic: We Got Married! en Tue, 02 Dec 2008 00:39:21 +0000 hwong14 on "We Got Married!" http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/we-got-married#post-62937 Fri, 27 Jun 2008 03:30:32 +0000 hwong14 62937@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ gorgeous!!!! lotusmoss on "We Got Married!" http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/we-got-married#post-62399 Wed, 25 Jun 2008 13:33:58 +0000 lotusmoss 62399@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ Thanks Vivian! vivian on "We Got Married!" http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/we-got-married#post-61872 Mon, 23 Jun 2008 22:57:11 +0000 vivian 61872@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ Oh wow!  I LOVE the chandelier/kissing photo!  You NEED to frame that beauty! lotusmoss on "We Got Married!" http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/we-got-married#post-61563 Mon, 23 Jun 2008 08:51:09 +0000 lotusmoss 61563@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ Thank you for all of the sweet comments!  Sorry for the double post, but I wasn't able to flag or delete my first post!  I'll keep on checking in here to see what everyone is up to!  mrsbee on "We Got Married!" http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/we-got-married#post-61323 Fri, 20 Jun 2008 23:34:05 +0000 mrsbee 61323@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ you lookg gorgeous!!!! congratulations!!!! <img src="/my-plugins/tinymce/jscripts/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/icon_biggrin.gif" /> luckyinKY on "We Got Married!" http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/we-got-married#post-61322 Fri, 20 Jun 2008 22:58:43 +0000 luckyinKY 61322@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ YAY! I have been checking the site to see when we would get to see some pictures! Now I can't wait to see more ;) ! These are so gorgeous! I love the chandelier! I am glad to see that everything was as lovely as you had imagined. Your ceremony sounds lovely too! I think I am one of those people who loves the ceremony more than the reception. Glad to hear you share some of that sentiment. Your photographer had such lovely words to say about your wedding! MissE on "We Got Married!" http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/we-got-married#post-60598 Wed, 18 Jun 2008 14:42:33 +0000 MissE 60598@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ I was a guest at lotusmoss's wedding, and I am a bride to be (albeit in another state).  Her advice is definitely true, don't forget about the ceremony!  There ceremony was over the top and had everyone in tears.  The sun was just dragging behind the barn.  The sound system was good--so everyone could hear.  The B and G looked so excited to see each other.  I also loved how the white wood fencing (next to the barn) was covered by grape vine and lights.  Perfect is the only word to describe that wedding. lotusmoss on "We Got Married!" http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/we-got-married#post-60146 Tue, 17 Jun 2008 09:13:29 +0000 lotusmoss 60146@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ Here we are:  a second try. I promised that I'd post details and so here are some highlights (our first professional pics, which we just got today) from our wedding.  Please note that you must credit our amazing photographer Amanda Egan should you use any photos: <img src="http://images39.fotki.com/v1234/photos/1/1348531/6363783/cat1-vi.jpg" /> I'm so glad that I let our incredible florist, Patrick Howard of Lexington, KY, choose the flowers on his own.  He did such a great job using pops of color.  Just goes to show, your color scheme does not need to be matchy-matchy! <img src="http://images39.fotki.com/v1236/photos/1/1348531/6363783/gary1-vi.jpg" /> My incredibly handsome groom.  I'm so glad that he and the groomsmen wore their own dark suits instead of tuxes (though, both of course, will work!) <img src="http://images39.fotki.com/v1232/photos/1/1348531/6363783/catgary6-vi.jpg" /> Our first look. <img src="http://images38.fotki.com/v1221/photos/1/1348531/6363783/girls1-vi.jpg" /> The girls in their navy dresses--any dress that they wanted!  As you can see, the slight color and style variations worked beautifully.  My sister and maid of honor, on the far left, wore a long dress to kind of set her apart.  <img src="http://images38.fotki.com/v1214/photos/1/1348531/6363783/ceremony1-vi.jpg" /> Getting married in front of my grandparents' barn. <img src="http://images35.fotki.com/v1208/photos/1/1348531/6363783/recessional-vi.jpg" /> Rose petal toss at the end of the ceremony, because we didn't want to leave earlier than our guests at the reception! <img src="http://images39.fotki.com/v1236/photos/1/1348531/6363783/catgary2-vi.jpg" /> Here's a better shot of the barn where we got married.  The chandelier looked gorgeous after dark hung in between curtains made of tabacco netting!  We didn't even move the wagon or old wood inside--it just added to the rustic romance.  <img src="http://images35.fotki.com/v1197/photos/1/1348531/6313089/P1000869-vi.jpg" /> The flowers were really incredible--huge urns filled with flowers and hung in front of wrought iron fans on either side of the barn, copper kettles of all different sizes filled with tiny flowers.  And tons of candles.  In all, it was magical, incredible.   <img src="http://images35.fotki.com/v1209/photos/1/1348531/6332234/DSCN0047-vi.jpg" /> I don't have any detail shots of the flowers yet, but here they are being used the next day at brunch.  They were so sweet--little copper containers grouped on tables.  People danced until 3:30 am, barefoot in the field lit by old lanterns, layed on the lawn watching stars, and jamming on the banjo, and just celebrated love.  We had two guests spontaneously break out in song (A russian love song, and later on, some opera!).   In terms of vendors, all of ours get great grades. Photographer: Amanda Egan, A+.  So personable, very affordable, and as you can see, already has done a wonderful job with the photography.  So kind to work with, comes with assistants, and is willing to give you digitals, which many photographers aren't. Food: Dupree Catering, A+.  We worked with Eileen, who is a good old friend.  We had food stations, which she set up elegantly and perfectly.  We had a carving station with KY lamb chops with mint sauce, ham with mustard sauce and cheddar biscuits; a Seafood Station with Shrimp and Cheesy Garlic Grits and Grilled Asparagus; an Antipasti Station with Proscuitto Wrapped Figs, Goat Cheese Stuffed Peppers, Marinated Olives and Tortellini; and a Salad Station with a Potato Salad with Feta and Scallions, a Green Salad with Goat Cheese and Beets, and a Roasted Veggie Salad with Balsamic Vinaigrette.  We had carrot cake cupcakes for dessert.  All super yum.  Eileen is incredible to work with and knows lots of Lexington area vendors and so she works with other vendors very well. Port-A-Pots: Kentucky Sanitation, A.  We got the fancy Port-A-Pots.  The really fancy kind.  Like they're way better than my apartment in DC.  They had AC, a sound system, and were sparkling clean with flush toilets.  They were pretty easy to work with--needed a little bit of direction, but were quite easy. Tent and Rentals: Purdon's Rental, Lexington.  A+. Paul Purdon and his staff were awesome.  The tent was top-grade and looked impeccable.  He watches the weather radars like a hawk and helped us with rain plans just in case (fortunately, the weather was perfect).  Great about getting us various linens too.  Day of Wedding Coordinator: Roberta Gilbert, Mt. Sterling, A++.  Roberta is incredible.  She really mainly works just in Mt. Sterling and doesn't have an official business or anything.  She went above and beyond her duties, and kept everything running perfectly.  While I don't recommend a wedding planner, I can't imagine doing a wedding day without a coordinator.  The bride and her mother (or parents, or partner and his or her parents) should really not be answering a ton of questions the day of.   We also hired someone local that we know to do valet parking.  It was a great idea, especially since we had the cars park out in a farm field to keep them out of view, and since many of our guests left at 2 and 3 in the morning.  And if you live in a smaller town, it really didn't cost a ton of extra money. In the end, it is not the small, silly details that matter--like color-schemed M&Ms that match your bridesmaid's dresses, or the perfect truffle placed at everyone's dining spot.  What matters is the tone that you set for your guests through your attitude, the overall mood, and the ceremony.  We got married in a place that meant the world to us, surrounded by the people we love.  We did some of the typical detail stuff--colored linens, some favors, printing out programs, but mainly we set a tone of an exciting, loving, Kentucky themed wedding and didn't worry about the details that weren't important.  The ceremony, people, food, alcohol, and music were the important parts.  If there's one piece of advice I could give, it would be, don't sweat the small stuff, and don't forget about your ceremony!  It is the most important part of getting married and most people spend only a small amount of time thinking about how they want to get married (not just the reception!).  We wrote our own vows and kept them secret until the wedding.  Everyone (including all of the men) at the whole wedding was crying and it was so meaningful.  We'll carry them with us for all our lives. Sorry for going on and on.  But thank you to weddingbee for all of your advice, support, and help!  It has been a great community to be a part of.   lotusmoss on "We Got Married!" http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/we-got-married#post-59884 Mon, 16 Jun 2008 14:15:31 +0000 lotusmoss 59884@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ Oh no!  The photos won't post for some reason, even though I'm doing what I always do.  I'll work on it later.  In the meantime, you can check the pics out at: <a href="http://amandaeganphoto.wordpress.com. " rel="nofollow">http://amandaeganphoto.wordpress.com. </a> We're the first couple, Cat and Gary. lotusmoss on "We Got Married!" http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/we-got-married#post-59883 Mon, 16 Jun 2008 14:13:27 +0000 lotusmoss 59883@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ I promised that I'd post details and so here are some highlights (our first professional pics, which we just got today) from our wedding.  Please note that you must credit our amazing photographer Amanda Egan should you use any photos: I'm so glad that I let our incredible florist, Patrick Howard of Lexington, KY, choose the flowers on his own.  He did such a great job using pops of color.  Just goes to show, your color scheme does not need to be matchy-matchy! My incredibly handsome groom.  I'm so glad that he and the groomsmen wore their own dark suits instead of tuxes (though, both of course, will work!) Our first look. The girls in their navy dresses--any dress that they wanted!  As you can see, the slight color and style variations worked beautifully.  My sister and maid of honor, on the far left, wore a long dress to kind of set her apart.   Getting married in front of my grandparents' barn. Rose petal toss at the end of the ceremony, because we didn't want to leave earlier than our guests at the reception! Here's a better shot of the barn where we got married.  The chandelier looked gorgeous after dark hung in between curtains made of tabacco netting!  We didn't even move the wagon or old wood inside--it just added to the rustic romance.  Sorry I don't have more detail of the tent decor, but I can add some later.  The flowers were really incredible--huge urns filled with flowers and hung in front of wrought iron fans on either side of the barn, copper kettles of all different sizes filled with tiny flowers.  And tons of candles.  In all, it was magical, incredible.  People danced until 3:30 am, barefoot in the field lit by old lanterns, layed on the lawn watching stars, and jamming on the banjo, and just celebrated love.  We had two guests spontaneously break out in song (A russian love song, and later on, some opera!).   In terms of vendors, all of ours get great grades. Photographer: Amanda Egan, A+.  So personable, very affordable, and as you can see, already has done a wonderful job with the photography.  So kind to work with, comes with assistants, and is willing to give you digitals, which many photographers aren't. Food: Dupree Catering, A+.  We worked with Eileen, who is a good old friend.  We had food stations, which she set up elegantly and perfectly.  We had a carving station with KY lamb chops with mint sauce, ham with mustard sauce and cheddar biscuits; a Seafood Station with Shrimp and Cheesy Garlic Grits and Grilled Asparagus; an Antipasti Station with Proscuitto Wrapped Figs, Goat Cheese Stuffed Peppers, Marinated Olives and Tortellini; and a Salad Station with a Potato Salad with Feta and Scallions, a Green Salad with Goat Cheese and Beets, and a Roasted Veggie Salad with Balsamic Vinaigrette.  We had carrot cake cupcakes for dessert.  All super yum.  Eileen is incredible to work with and knows lots of Lexington area vendors and so she works with other vendors very well. Port-A-Pots: Kentucky Sanitation, A.  We got the fancy Port-A-Pots.  The really fancy kind.  Like they're way better than my apartment in DC.  They had AC, a sound system, and were sparkling clean with flush toilets.  They were pretty easy to work with--needed a little bit of direction, but were quite easy. Tent and Rentals: Purdon's Rental, Lexington.  A+. Paul Purdon and his staff were awesome.  The tent was top-grade and looked impeccable.  He watches the weather radars like a hawk and helped us with rain plans just in case (fortunately, the weather was perfect).  Great about getting us various linens too.  Day of Wedding Coordinator: Roberta Gilbert, Mt. Sterling, A++.  Roberta is incredible.  She really mainly works just in Mt. Sterling and doesn't have an official business or anything.  She went above and beyond her duties, and kept everything running perfectly.  While I don't recommend a wedding planner, I can't imagine doing a wedding day without a coordinator.  The bride and her mother (or parents, or partner and his or her parents) should really not be answering a ton of questions the day of.   We also hired someone local that we know to do valet parking.  It was a great idea, especially since we had the cars park out in a farm field to keep them out of view, and since many of our guests left at 2 and 3 in the morning.  And if you live in a smaller town, it really didn't cost a ton of extra money. In the end, it is not the small, silly details that matter--like color-schemed M&Ms that match your bridesmaid's dresses, or the perfect truffle placed at everyone's dining spot.  What matters is the tone that you set for your guests through your attitude, the overall mood, and the ceremony.  We got married in a place that meant the world to us, surrounded by the people we love.  We did some of the typical detail stuff--colored linens, some favors, printing out programs, but mainly we set a tone of an exciting, loving, Kentucky themed wedding and didn't worry about the details that weren't important.  The ceremony, people, food, alcohol, and music were the important parts.  If there's one piece of advice I could give, it would be, don't sweat the small stuff, and don't forget about your ceremony!  It is the most important part of getting married and most people spend only a small amount of time thinking about how they want to get married (not just the reception!).  We wrote our own vows and kept them secret until the wedding.  Everyone (including all of the men) at the whole wedding was crying and it was so meaningful.  We'll carry them with us for all our lives. Sorry for going on and on.  But thank you to weddingbee for all of your advice, support, and help!  It has been a great community to be a part of.