http://boards.weddingbee.com/ Weddingbee Boards Topic: Crazy EX MB behavior strikes again en Tue, 02 Dec 2008 00:28:36 +0000 http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/crazy-ex-mb-behavior-strikes-again#post-65041 Thu, 03 Jul 2008 23:11:36 +0000 glittergrl 65041@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>again.... feed her cake. but this time, give her 2 pieces. One for her 'DJ' mantoy (it shocks me she is even able to maintain a relationship!) </p> <p>this biotch is bating you bigtime. she's a glory hog... I'd can her ass and say, &quot;You know what, this is just too much drama and I think you'd be better served spending the evening with your boyfriend at his DJ gig at another wedding. And by the way unlike you, I'm not kidding.&quot;</p> <p>and yes, I really would say that to her.</p> <p>would you like me to pretend I'm you? <img src="/my-plugins/tinymce/jscripts/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/icon_wink.gif" /><img src="/my-plugins/tinymce/jscripts/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/icon_biggrin.gif" /> </p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/crazy-ex-mb-behavior-strikes-again#post-65027 Thu, 03 Jul 2008 21:45:37 +0000 QueenoftheClick 65027@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Just try to ignore her. Obviously she is just a real cranky/weird person or she is jealous of your happiness and festivities. &nbsp;</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/crazy-ex-mb-behavior-strikes-again#post-64926 Thu, 03 Jul 2008 16:22:39 +0000 Sweeney2Be 64926@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>I'm not stressed as much as I am annoyed. Which is why I come ya'll to help me find non violent ways of dealing. I can't uninvite. I just can't i know it sound sterrible and most of you would have strung her up by now and beat her silly with bats....but I can't. </p> <p>Ignoring works for me and I think I will take that road and I have taken oher advice that I have a &quot;Cream Suace Handeler&quot; (LOL) to keep her away from me on the wedding day.</p> <p>I'm assuming she'll get annoyed and go home sooner then everyone else anyway.</p> <p>Thanks again.,&nbsp;</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/crazy-ex-mb-behavior-strikes-again#post-64850 Thu, 03 Jul 2008 13:49:19 +0000 livvie 64850@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>I say you ignore her too.&nbsp; It sounds like you're letting her stress you out way too much.&nbsp; Smile, pay for his dinner, and focus on something better. </p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/crazy-ex-mb-behavior-strikes-again#post-64837 Thu, 03 Jul 2008 13:24:12 +0000 Janna19 64837@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>You are allowing this girl to cause you way too much stress.&nbsp; You can't change her so either uninvite her or just let it alllll go.&nbsp; Whatever she does, don't worry about it. Concentrate on all the great people who are coming and the fact that you are getting married!!</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/crazy-ex-mb-behavior-strikes-again#post-64797 Thu, 03 Jul 2008 12:01:17 +0000 suzanno 64797@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>Ugh.&nbsp; She's a piece of work, isn't she?&nbsp; If her boyfriend can only attend part of the evening, and will have to leave, he should RSVP as &quot;wedding only.&quot;&nbsp; We have several friends who are actually leaving for Europe on a late flight the night of our wedding who did that - they will attend the wedding and perhaps have a cocktail afterwards, but have to leave for the airport around the time that dinner is served.&nbsp; It's really not possible that he doesn't know what time he has to leave - if he's working that night they expect him there at a specific time.&nbsp; If he's going to have to leave before the dinner hour is over, then he shouldn't get dinner (what, are they next going to ask you to pack his &quot;to go&quot;?) </p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/crazy-ex-mb-behavior-strikes-again#post-64782 Thu, 03 Jul 2008 11:45:46 +0000 Sweeney2Be 64782@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>I shold take applications of fellow Hive members who want to attend my wedding and be the &quot;Cream Sauce&quot; aversion squad....lol </p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/crazy-ex-mb-behavior-strikes-again#post-64752 Thu, 03 Jul 2008 11:09:21 +0000 dreambml 64752@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>the food thing I could understand if she was lactose intolerant.&nbsp; but this is just strange.&nbsp; Just don't count him for food.&nbsp; and tell her.&nbsp; if he is there, he can eat appetizers, or you can just tell the kitchen that you got an unexpected guest.&nbsp; they make more food than they need anyway.&nbsp; and until then, ignore her from now on!&nbsp; shes obnoxious. </p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/crazy-ex-mb-behavior-strikes-again#post-64739 Thu, 03 Jul 2008 10:44:41 +0000 prettykatie 64739@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>Do you even want to maintain a friendship with this person anymore? I only ask because if you don't, I would honestly uninvite her at this point. But to do that you would have to be willing to break all ties with her. If that's not something you want to do or can do because of the situation, then ditto mrbee and gingerbread. You just need to take the high road and stop worrying about her. </p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/crazy-ex-mb-behavior-strikes-again#post-64736 Thu, 03 Jul 2008 10:40:12 +0000 gingerbread 64736@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>I think Mr Bee is right. Her &quot;jokes&quot; are her way of stressing you out with a smile on her face. You will take away her control over you if you just let her special requests or, really, any attempt to engage you, roll off your back. You have to many legitimate things to worry about as you prepare for your wedding. Try not to give her another thought. </p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/crazy-ex-mb-behavior-strikes-again#post-64735 Thu, 03 Jul 2008 10:39:44 +0000 guinness257 64735@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>Take a deep breath. Ignore her.&nbsp; Pay for the food either way.&nbsp; Consider the $$ is the cost of your sanity! </p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/crazy-ex-mb-behavior-strikes-again#post-64734 Thu, 03 Jul 2008 10:36:54 +0000 mrbee 64734@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>Just take the high road.&nbsp; She's trying to create drama - either through her food or through her boyfriend - to get back at you. </p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/crazy-ex-mb-behavior-strikes-again#post-64732 Thu, 03 Jul 2008 10:33:29 +0000 jma19 64732@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>Yes!! Make her eat his food too! THAT will help her &quot;diet&quot; </p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/crazy-ex-mb-behavior-strikes-again#post-64720 Thu, 03 Jul 2008 10:09:53 +0000 Sweeney2Be 64720@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>I'll send her a bill if she doens't eat his food.....;-) </p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/crazy-ex-mb-behavior-strikes-again#post-64717 Thu, 03 Jul 2008 10:05:47 +0000 LaborDayBride 64717@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>She's making your life a living hell! Are you sure you cannot uninvite her? I feel like that is the only solution! You shouldn't even have to see her on your big day! </p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/crazy-ex-mb-behavior-strikes-again#post-64696 Thu, 03 Jul 2008 09:13:47 +0000 Sweeney2Be 64696@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>Okay remember the ex BM I told you about - &quot;Cream Sauce&quot;, the one who wanted a special order on her meal at the wedding just because. </p> <p>Yeah well I fuind out she was &quot;just kidding&quot; with me. I'm fratically trying to find out if the venue will do it and IF I should allow it and she's &quot;kidding&quot; Ugh...</p> <p>So NOW....she's RSVP'd with her boyfriend and I asked her to make sure she's 100% positive he won't be at a DJ show that night working. She says, he would still come just stay until he las to leave? Which is an undertermined time, and could be beofre the meal....and I would still be stuck paying for his food.&nbsp;</p> <p>I told her tough, either he stays for the food no matter what or he's not eating. I'm sick of her crap and I can't uninvite her so maybe she'll decline now or soemthing. </p> <p>Any other options from you girls on how to handle Guest-zilla?&nbsp;</p>