http://boards.weddingbee.com/ Weddingbee Boards Topic: Embarassing question en Tue, 14 Feb 2012 07:16:56 +0000 http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/embarassing-question/page/2#post-2016348 Sun, 10 Apr 2011 18:50:11 +0000 organizedbride11 2016348@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>we do when its at the peak of the visit... but for the most part when its not as heavy we will just do what we do:)</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/embarassing-question/page/2#post-2016066 Sun, 10 Apr 2011 17:59:53 +0000 Torrid 2016066@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>When I did have a period before my BC, we did a few times, but I was a ultra-heavy bleeder. :( Got to the point where I felt gross &amp; he didn't like all the blood.</p> <p>What really grosses me out is when people have oral when they're on their period. Makes me gag, but I know there are people out there that really like it.</p> <p>*dies*</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/embarassing-question/page/2#post-2010732 Fri, 08 Apr 2011 18:56:06 +0000 SouthernGirl 2010732@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>When I actually got a period I abstained. FH and I both found the idea pretty gross. We had sex on what should have been the last day of my period and I suppose to action unclogged the pipes so to say. It was messy and everywhere. It freaked FH out and embarassed me, so we just avoided sex all together when it came.</p> <p>Now that I'm on Depo, I never get a period so there's no issue.&nbsp;</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/embarassing-question/page/2#post-2010720 Fri, 08 Apr 2011 18:48:29 +0000 muckmoo1 2010720@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>It hasn't stopped us my FH is down for it anytime. lol put a towel down and you will be fine.</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/embarassing-question/page/2#post-2010704 Fri, 08 Apr 2011 18:38:44 +0000 Elarissa 2010704@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>Mine thinks its gross so we abstain.</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/embarassing-question/page/2#post-2010700 Fri, 08 Apr 2011 18:37:05 +0000 thisisnotme 2010700@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>We use a towel underneath.&nbsp; My bf doesn't care about the mess from sex, I'm the anal one grabbing the towel afterwards&nbsp;to clean up on non-Flo days, which does drive him a little batty.&nbsp; I have longer periods though, so he wouldn't be happy if we didn't.&nbsp; My college bf was very weirded out by it so I had to persuade him on the tail end that it was ok and I was "virtually done so it's fine."</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/embarassing-question/page/2#post-830246 Thu, 25 Mar 2010 07:47:20 +0000 Future Mrs. Martin 830246@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>We have but we usually prefer not to!</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/embarassing-question/page/2#post-830242 Thu, 25 Mar 2010 07:46:44 +0000 missjyc 830242@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>per the consensus... i've experienced both, but my personal pref is to abstain (so is the FI's!) :P so it works for us... on "light" days... and i'm needing it... we'll have a go... but usually we abstain. :)</p> <p>i've had exes that couldn't wait and we did the towel thing, but it's just too "yucky" for me to enjoy it.</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/embarassing-question/page/2#post-830230 Thu, 25 Mar 2010 07:42:27 +0000 missmouse29 830230@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>@daniellemybelle:</p> <p>I may be reading your comment wrong, but just like a tampon you <strong><em>have to</em></strong> take your cup out to have sex; They (cups)are bigger than diaphragms since they aren`t just a fancy hat for your cervix. Diva Cups are actually one of the biggest (longest) cups out there, so yeah, not much room up there with a cup in...</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/embarassing-question/page/2#post-394188 Thu, 08 Oct 2009 05:44:01 +0000 surkim 394188@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium;"&gt;<br /> &lt;div style="color: #000000; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 10px; background-image: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; -webkit-background-clip: initial; -webkit-background-origin: initial; background-color: #ffffff; background-position: initial initial; margin: 8px;"&gt; </p> <p>Yes. &nbsp;There's a thing call the instead cup (<a href="http://www.softcup.com/">http://www.softcup.com/</a>), one of their selling points is that you can do the bang while on your period.</p> <p>I was using them for a while, but had some mid-cycle spotting that was bothering me, I think it was from the cup nudging things on the way in and out. &nbsp;I went back to pads, the spotting stopped, and now there is usually no bang that week. &nbsp;</p> <p>They work really well, you just have to be open to putting it in and pulling it out and dealing with it.</p>