Weddingbee Boards Topic: So when are you going to have kids?

Weddingbee Boards Topic: So when are you going to have kids? http://boards.weddingbee.com/ Weddingbee Boards Topic: So when are you going to have kids? en Mon, 23 Nov 2009 04:53:03 +0000 peanutlovespumpkin on "So when are you going to have kids?" http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/so-when-are-you-going-to-have-kids/page/2#post-425094 Sun, 25 Oct 2009 00:46:07 +0000 peanutlovespumpkin 425094@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ we're aiming for 5 years after the wedding date; we'll be mid-30s and hopefully settled in our careers and financially by then. I don't feel offended when loved ones ask about our plans - I just answer truthfully "in 5 years".  I will openly confess that I ask my friends what their plans are with children, I don't see it as rude; quite the opposite, I love them and I am genuinely interested.  I would hope that if they were uncomfortable about my questions they would let me know; all my friends so far have gone into detailed accounts of their plans, so I guess they're cool with it. surkim on "So when are you going to have kids?" http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/so-when-are-you-going-to-have-kids/page/2#post-425051 Sat, 24 Oct 2009 23:32:37 +0000 surkim 425051@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ We decided between 30 and 35.  Plenty of time to get settled and established, enjoy ourselves, do what we want, blahblahblah, and early enough that it shouldn't be too much of a problem. I mean, our mothers had us pretty late, and we turned out fine... Too bad for his mom, she's itching for a grandkid, and figures it's not coming from her daughter, so she bothers us about it.   MrsSpinella09 on "So when are you going to have kids?" http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/so-when-are-you-going-to-have-kids/page/2#post-425014 Sat, 24 Oct 2009 23:05:56 +0000 MrsSpinella09 425014@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ Since I have a few more years in school, we have decided to wait until I'm about to graduate, or graduated. He'll be done a year and a half sooner than me, but he still insists on waiting until we both have steady sources of income. I have the baby bug now and we're not even married yet! I want to start popping out babies as soon as we're married, but I know we're not financially ready or ready as a couple. Laylabelle on "So when are you going to have kids?" http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/so-when-are-you-going-to-have-kids/page/2#post-425003 Sat, 24 Oct 2009 22:59:42 +0000 Laylabelle 425003@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ I think it's an incredibly rude question, and I flat out tell people that it's a crapshoot considering my cervix is all but gone, but thanks for asking. That usually shuts them up. However, we are going to start immediately following the wedding, since i'm 32 and we want quite a few, not to mention that it really is a crapshoot, because I really don't have much of a cervix left. MissAsB on "So when are you going to have kids?" http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/so-when-are-you-going-to-have-kids/page/2#post-424916 Sat, 24 Oct 2009 21:44:27 +0000 MissAsB 424916@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ We aren't really sure about the future with kids.  Right now we are trying to get ourselves settled into jobs, finish up school and get a new house.  My husband was actually asked at the reception when we are going to have kids!  That is just so rude to me! EngagedToPanda on "So when are you going to have kids?" http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/so-when-are-you-going-to-have-kids/page/2#post-424911 Sat, 24 Oct 2009 21:39:28 +0000 EngagedToPanda 424911@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ I want to wait at least another year or two, and I think hubby is sort of in the same timeframe. He wants to wait until we are settled in a different location than we are now, which could be in 1 or 2 years, or not for another 3-4 years. As long as I get to do some international traveling at least once a year leading up to baby making, I'm willing to wait a while :) I really want to see the world! eeniebeans on "So when are you going to have kids?" http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/so-when-are-you-going-to-have-kids/page/2#post-421450 Thu, 22 Oct 2009 18:31:24 +0000 eeniebeans 421450@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ I have a 6 year old, so you'd think people would back off.  But no.  They still ask rude questions.  But as I am 32, we plan to start trying for ONE more pretty immediately after the wedding. winter443 on "So when are you going to have kids?" http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/so-when-are-you-going-to-have-kids/page/2#post-421437 Thu, 22 Oct 2009 18:22:54 +0000 winter443 421437@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <a href="mailto:lol@bluespurrs">lol@bluespurrs</a> I want to have kids before I'm 30, I'm 25 now so we decided on 3-5 years. bluespurrs on "So when are you going to have kids?" http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/so-when-are-you-going-to-have-kids/page/2#post-421414 Thu, 22 Oct 2009 18:10:52 +0000 bluespurrs 421414@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ It's funny because one of my husband's nephews asked when we are going to have kids. At 50 years old, I told the young man that if I get pregnant, they will have to write a new book for the bible and name it after ME! realeastcoaster on "So when are you going to have kids?" http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/so-when-are-you-going-to-have-kids/page/2#post-420941 Thu, 22 Oct 2009 14:46:47 +0000 realeastcoaster 420941@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ We brought a bit of this on ourselves...at our wedding we had a wedding wish bowl, and people could write down favourite memories, advice, or predictions for our future. It went over really well, and many people predicted that they would be hearing baby news in the next year. So now we have these people asking us all the time if we're pregnant, hopingtheir prediction will come true lol