http://boards.weddingbee.com/ Weddingbee Boards Topic: Who plans most of your "dates" in your relationship? en Tue, 14 Feb 2012 12:59:54 +0000 http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/who-plans-most-of-your-dates-in-your-relationship#post-457104 Mon, 09 Nov 2009 03:53:55 +0000 bamm 457104@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>50/50!&nbsp; We only get to see each other about twice a week right now.&nbsp; Thursdays are always chill out night in front of the tv.&nbsp; But we plan special snacks for each other (like I bake him a pie, or he buys me my fav Chinese beer).&nbsp; We used to make a conscious effort to share the weekend date planning when we started dating.&nbsp; However, now it naturally happens with either taking turns planning, or mutually coming up with a plan.&nbsp; And then when we travel in Korea he does all the planning, and when we go to Canada I'm in charge of everything.</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/who-plans-most-of-your-dates-in-your-relationship#post-456937 Sun, 08 Nov 2009 20:10:01 +0000 MsBBerry 456937@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>I do. All the time. He won't even book tickets or hotels when we travel (even when he travels I do it for him!). In a way I like being in control of the choices but sometimes it's annoying when he expects me to keep coming up with ideas while all he does is rejects&nbsp;all of them without suggesting any.</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/who-plans-most-of-your-dates-in-your-relationship#post-456845 Sun, 08 Nov 2009 19:06:59 +0000 Jaxx317 456845@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>that would be me. even though i have no free time and work twice as much as he does :)</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/who-plans-most-of-your-dates-in-your-relationship#post-456836 Sun, 08 Nov 2009 19:03:49 +0000 winter443 456836@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>My FI does most of the planning, it gets on his nerves sometimes that I don't plan more activities but I'm working at getting better with that.</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/who-plans-most-of-your-dates-in-your-relationship#post-456829 Sun, 08 Nov 2009 18:58:52 +0000 His Barista 456829@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>I do about 3/4 of the time. He definitly suggests stuff sometime, just not as often as me.</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/who-plans-most-of-your-dates-in-your-relationship#post-456784 Sun, 08 Nov 2009 18:38:50 +0000 ItsAgoFinally 456784@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>he usually does.....but its usually the same ol same ol when i suggest something its usually something different or somewhere different, but i give him an a for effort..:)</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/who-plans-most-of-your-dates-in-your-relationship#post-456242 Sun, 08 Nov 2009 11:52:32 +0000 Valhalla 456242@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>Ah Corgi, I am familiar with the back and forth "what do you wanna do" "I don't care, what do you wanna do" battle. This usually happens when I am all out of ideas, and more often than not I either have to think up somthing or we end up doing nothing. Which sometimes is fine, but can also be frustrating.</p> <p>Miss Pudding - I also initially moved to British Columbia to be with Mr. Valhalla, but we were a bit different because we were both new here. It's a good thing we had each other! But sometimes I still felt socially isolated until I finally made some new friends. It was also major culture shock - being a Maritimer moving the the West Coast came with some changes!</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/who-plans-most-of-your-dates-in-your-relationship#post-455575 Sat, 07 Nov 2009 19:20:44 +0000 pudding 455575@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>He does!&nbsp; Mr. Pudding thinks that it's very important for us to have a date night at least once a week.&nbsp; Since I moved here about two months ago, I don't know many people in Vermont yet, so I don't get out of the house often.&nbsp; It's his way of helping me feel integrated.</p> <p>If it was up to me, we'd be on the couch, eating Ben and Jerry's, and watching reality tv every night!</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/who-plans-most-of-your-dates-in-your-relationship#post-455561 Sat, 07 Nov 2009 19:11:47 +0000 CorgiTales 455561@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>I'd say its about 2/3 me 1/3 him. He definitely suggests stuff sometimes, but the more frequent thing is me suggesting. Sometimes we both get frustrated and do the "what do you wanna do?" "I dunno, what do you wanna do?" "I don't care... you pick" "well I don't care either you pick..." hehe</p> http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/who-plans-most-of-your-dates-in-your-relationship#post-455464 Sat, 07 Nov 2009 17:34:09 +0000 JamaicaBride 455464@http://boards.weddingbee.com/ <p>We don't really do too much planning. His schedule is so crazy sometimes we just do things when we can. It's kind of hard b/c of the distance so we usually end up on the couch talking and gazing into each other's eyes....LOL. Exciting stuff huh?</p>