(Closed) i need some help……….

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
2066 posts
Buzzing bee

How does your Fiance react when his family treats you badly?  If he isn’t standing up for you and putting his family in their place, then you need to have a serious discussion with him now.

His family will always be his family (and they are about to be your family).  You need to figure out a way to get along with them.  

You should also consider premarital counseling (if you aren’t already).  It will be good for you and Fiance to discuss issues like this with a third party.

Good luck!

Post # 5
512 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

When I first met FH we had similar issues.  It took A LONG time for it to work out (we have known each other for 10 years and just now his mom and I really get along).  He needs to be willing to work with you — if you want to go to counseling, he should support you and go to, regardless of what his family thinks.


I agree that if you marry him, you marry his family.  This definitely needs to get resolved before you get married or you’ll be miserable.

Post # 6
751 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Huggs!! You could always persuade your Fiance to move to another state after the wedding.

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