- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
Stick to your guns in who and will not be attending as a plus one!!!
OR who shall get a plus one, etc.
I did not do this for my shower and it made for mucho awkwardness!!!!
I am always the nice person, saying “Oh, SURE you can bring so and so along!”
I had an urge to say my preferences to these guests and did not and realized in the end the only people who should have felt awkward was them. Don’t be afraid to sound ‘mean’ if someone asks to invite someone you don’t want to be there or you are unsure about. Not every story may have a bad ending but mine did and I refuse to be so kind towards awkward plus 1 requests at the wedding.