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One thank you card for each household is what I would/will do.
I wouldn't want someone to feel slighted if the thank you message wasn't passed on to everyone who chipped in.
I send a thank you to each person, except if it's a gift from a large group of co-workers.
Examples:
I work with 20-30 people, and they got us a few bottles of wine and a card and gave it to me before the wedding. I will write one thank you card then. The gift was actually purchased by one individual and the card was just signed "from x staff."
Two of my friends of school bought a gift together. I will send each of them a thank you note.
My friends and I pool money for gifts frequently, and I have always received one card per person or couple.
for my shower I handled it by writing 1 per household (sort of).
My FI's Aunt and her 4 daughters went together on a gift so I sent a card to the 2 daughters that are married, and 1 to the aunt and the 2 daughers that aren't married. The 2 daughters that aren't married don't live at home, but they are kind of an old fashioned lot, so i figured they would think this was normal. If it were my family, I might have sent the daughters that don't live at home a seperate thank you...it depends on the 'audience' I guess.
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how do you write thank you cards for people who pooled together for a gift? do you have to send a thank you to each person or is there some way to send one card for the group?