10 days before wedding and ceremony falling apart!!!

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: If you were in my position, what would you do?
    Have the wedding with family and silent father present making you uncomfortable : (15 votes)
    100 %
    Run off to Vegas and marry in a chapel but feel bad your mom and children aren't there : (0 votes)
  • Post # 4
    8850 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

    Do you think if you apologized for your part in the argument (because let’s be honest, there are always two sides even though it sounds like he was being a dick), he would also apologize and you two could move on?  Especially if you emphasized how you want to resolve things before your wedding?  I just got married recently and it’s such an important day to have your family’s support… I think it’s worth trying to resolve things with him if you can.  (You didn’t say that you had made any effort and it sounds like you’re waiting for him, which might be reasonable usually, but I think this calls for extra effort.)  Anyway, I’m sorry, good luck!

    Post # 5
    11772 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2013

    So why can’t you get married at the botanical gardens like planned?


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