- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
I just needed to get this out, thanks for listening in advance.
I’m becoming a two everything bride, and not by choice 🙁
First it started with my dress: 5 months after buying a sample dress I realized that in most lighting the front of the dress was yellowed from sun damage and impossible to clean/fix……some had to get a new dress 🙁 its fine Ilove my new one more now but at the time it was really sad.
A few months later my best friend since I was 9 years old and basically my sister (we are both only children) calls to say that she is unexpectedly having her third child and is due the week before my wedding on the other side of the country – so needless to say she is no longer coming and will not be the maid of honor I always pictured. We are working it out and she is coming this weekend to throw me a shower and I have a wonderful backup moh and am now able to include a dear friend who I couldn’t originally (who is sadly moving suddenly across the country this week and leaving me a lone at work but that’s another sad story)
And now, today, after everything else I have a meeting with our coordinator at the church informs me 101 days out that my priest made another commitment and can’t do our wedding! I booked him in may just so we could get him since he did my fiancé’s grandfathers funeral….he even claimed that he only took the other committment because he called emailed my fiancé and me multiple times and never heard back—he couldn’t provide proof and didn’t have a record of what numbers orwe mails were used but I know for a fact that neither of us ever got any messages or we would have for sure called back – I am way too type a and have been planning my June wedding since last may! So now I have to find another priest that we like in short notice. We already checked with another priest that has worked with his family & he is booked too. I’m just sooooooo frustrated!
I hope that I’m getting this all out of the way now and the rest will be easier 🙁 I know things will work out in some way and I’m marrying an amazing man but geesh give a girl a break!