- 6 years ago
- Wedding: November 2012
Tonight I got a phone call from a friend of mine who i use to work with saying guess what? we just got engaged! (this comes after they had a fight and she went off and kissed another guy infront of him and went home with him) and i was like oh haha very shocked BUT THEN she tells me she would like a spring wedding this year. Were in Australia so spring would be around my wedding. She then tells me she wants me to be a bridesmaid and she asked one of my bridesmaids to be her bridesmaid would normally be fine except this girl has been my best friend for 5 years and is going to America to be a nanny in 14 days. She told me she asked if she could come back to be at my wedding and they said thats ok. So i texted her and asked how she would work it to be in both weddings and if they would let her come back twice and she said i dont know yet…. now im so stressed that she wont be able to make it to my wedding but will go to hers or that if she pulls out of my wedding i cant think of anyone else to put in and would feel obligated to put this newly engaged women in my bridal party which is not what i wanted! ugh! It did upset me that she decided all of this and getting married before me but only by a month or two so that stresses me because by then i will be stressed! i know its unreasonable to be upset and i am excited for her… i guess its wedding jealousy. Just stressing out!