Post # 1
hello. So I’m usually a cool cucumber. I hardly ever get nervous/overly excited etc… But I’m freaking out a bit cos we’re getting married in 12 days time! It’s just snuck up on me! My shoulders are tight, I have butterflies, I feel sick hahaha.
I’m nervous about doing the actually walking down the aisle bit the most. My shoes have 5 inch heels (cos I’m short and FI is tall) I think I might fall. I suddenly remembered that I’m very much an introvert as well :-0 me centre of attention?? (yak) I think I might feel stupid to be honest lol. I hope walking down the aisle to a string quartet playing ‘here comes the bride’ helps me blend nicely into the background!! hehe.
Am I the only one, beginning to regret the big wedding, I originally wanted? I think I’d have felt better eloping or something.. bit late now mind xx
Post # 3
Haha the butterflies are normal! I’d be worried if you didn’t have them :p As far as regretting having a big wedding… totally. This wedding became more about our family and friends than it did us. If I could do it all over again, I would’ve went to City Hall in SF and called it a day :p But like my supportive fiancé always says… “we’ve come too far (money/time), so stop regretting everything and just enjoy it!” Ugh… he’s right. But congrats on the upcoming wedding! I suggest breaking in those 5in bad boys, and getting used to walking in them 🙂
Post # 4
@CaliBeeBride0813: Thanks, yes I think I need to break those shoes in haha. I’ve decided to eliminate some of my worries – like whether everyone is sitting next to/near people they want to be seated with.. and whether I’ve allowed enough time for the photographer..whether all the guests will turn up etc.. because these are the things beyond our control x
Post # 5
@smallstuff: hey you’re not alone!! I’m getting married in 12 days as well!!! I am a “tough cookies” I didn’t get nervous last week but we sat down with my in law soon to be on Sunday and I start to feel everything is happening!! Lol I start to worry about my speech, my hair, my veil – everything!!! Lol and you know what I do calm myself down? Telling myself that end of the day it’s just a wedding and I get to marry the man of my dreams and as long as he’s there, everything will be ok! 😉
Post # 6
@His_missus: Thank you. Lovely words and you’re right 🙂