- 8 years ago
- Wedding: March 2010
So my 17 yo cousin is one of my bridesmaids. a little history….Her father is my uncle, and her mother is a real [word for not nice person]. She left my uncle when my cousin was about 3 for another man, and has had several men live with her since then. She has used the child to get money out of my uncle for her whole life, and has poisoned her mind to hate her father and only call him for money. So, after years of trying to win her over, he’s just like ‘i give up on her’….long story, my mom and me and my sister have always tried really hard to keep her being part of our family, she even lived with us for 2 years while going to school. But she was just brought up so rude and unruly. Her Mom takes her to bars with her and stuff like that. But anyway, I still asked her to be a bridesmaid, cuz she’s my little cousin, and I wanted her to be one. I knew she wouldn’t be of any help whatsoever, but I still want her to be standing up there with me on my wedding day. But now she told my mom that “she’s bringing her friend” (a girl) who I’ve never seen before in my life!! I’m sort of mad because it’s a semi-destination wedding (3 hours away) and we have been chopping the guest list to keep it as small a we can. And why would she bring a friend who will just be a loner cuz the bridesmaids will be at the head table and I’m sure the girl won’t know anyone else. Should I just be like whatever, bridesmaids should be allowed an “and guest” or tell her she’s being rude and don’t bring her damn friend, that I don’t even know and will never see again and probably won’t even be HER friend for long, to my wedding? (cuz we are like that in family, we will tell you when u are being damn rude lol) My sister says to tell her hell no….