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Hey girls, so one of my best friends is having a weekend away for her Birthday, she asked me a few days ago if I was available, and I told her I was.

Now today, I open my facebook account and see one of my other best friend's husband is planning her a surprise b-day party (also out of town in a different city, that isn't too close to the other city that friend 1 is having her party at) on the same weekend.

If I had to choose I would want to go to the friend that is having the surprise party b/c I have known her longer, and she is my best friend of best friends. But, I don't think I can actully bear to break my plans with my friend that I already committed to, I would feel really really bad. Agggh I don't know what to do. Should I just tell friend's husband I already have plans? Should I break my first plans?

What would you do?

i would go to the closer friend's birthday. tell the first that something came up or you want to save money and can't afford it.