- 6 years ago
- Wedding: November 2012
I’m having a hard time trying to figure out how to send everyone into the church. My fiance has 2 best men (he couldn’t choose between his 2 best friends from high school) then has 3 more groomsmen. 5 total. The original plan was I was going to have a matron of honor (my sister) and a maid of honor too (my friend since childhood) and 3 more bridesmaids. Everything worked out perfectly until my sister who is a narcissist (Seriously, she’s diagnosed) caused problem after problem, and picked fight after fight with every other bridesmaid. Final straw was when we went to pick out bridesmaids dresses and she threw a fit because no one liked the Vera Wang dress SHE had her mind set on, and I said no and we chose something else. She threw a fit in the store, got ugly, said she wouldn’t wear the dress of my chosing. She finally came around, acted okay, until the next day when called me and started the fight again. This was at least the 4th time since we started wedding planning where she threw a fit because she wasn’t getting HER way in MY wedding. So, I decided she was causing more problems and stress so I took her out. Anyway, thats the back story.
Now, I am trying to decide how to do this. Do I send one groomsmen in alone, then everyone walk in with the next person from then on out, or do I send my Maid/Matron of Honor with both groomsmen walking behind? I have no idea what to do! HELP!