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2 Day before the wedding and FMIL is in the hospital =- (

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    Audrey9398    September 18, 2010   Merrimack NH

    My wedding is in two days and I just found out that my FMIL is in the hospital. She has COPD and lung cancer (although the tumor has shrunken to nothing). She has been on oxygen 24/7 for the last few months. She went in for pulmonary functions and ekg today. The found "a weakness in her heart." She had a cardic cath today and she has to stay over tonight. My future in laws are throwing us our rehearsal tomorrow and they have friends that have flown all the way from Denmark coming. She is hoping to be able to go home tomorrow morning. Keep your fingers crossed....

     
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    Rayean516    October 1, 2011   Annapolis

    That's rough. I hope things go well.

     
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    menobride    June 5, 2011   NH

    ARGH! i'm so sorry!

    I'm keeping fingers crossed for you, but she will probably have to recoup even if they send her home. Perhaps you could visit with her right after the dinner? Bring her photos, or maybe some food from the event?? Just so she can still feel part of it...

     
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    artbee    February 28, 2010  

    Oh no, hope she feels better!

    My hubby was in the hospital the weekend before our wedding. He had a crazy rapid heart beat that ended up being due to anemia. It's a scary time, but hopefully she will be ok and be able to celebrate with you!

     
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    jordynrose    October 16, 2010   Las Vegas, NV/Chandler, AZ

    I am so sorry about your FMIL!  My thoughts are with her and you. I hope she gets better soon.

     
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    Thinking of you and your families

     
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    elliestan    October 15, 2011   OK | TX

    oh no... all the best wishes for you and yours - I hope she'll be able to participate and starts feeling better soon!

     
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    Allyser    September 1, 2010  

    Im sorry!! She will be in my prayers!

     
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    Audrey9398    September 18, 2010   Merrimack NH

    Thanks everyone! Fingers crossed and hopefully are prayers are heard. It would be devistating to FI and I if she couldn't be there.

     
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    MsEucalyptus    October 1, 2011   Merry Land

    Oh my gosh! I'm so sorry, I'll be thinking about your and your family (/family to be).

     
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    Good luck. I hope your FMIL gets released! 

     
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    Audrey9398    September 18, 2010   Merrimack NH

    Ok I also just found out that our bridesmaid and groomsmen's (husband and wife) 5 month old son was also admitted this afternoon for dehydration. They just told me, 10 hours later. I am sure they didn't want to give me something to worry about. I just feel so badly for them, the wedding means nothing in comparison to him.

     
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    rlsulli1598@verizon.net       oregon

    @Audrey9398:

    I hope everyone gets better and everyone makes it to your wedding.

     

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