(Closed) 2 mo till the wedding…& dreams about my EX!!!

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

My ex has been showing up in my dreams, ahem, nightmares too. Never in a good light either; more in a realistic light. I think it’s a pre-wedding thing. Maybe because you have had contact w/ him lately + the anger resurfacing. Hopefully, they will go away quickly!Frown

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

First of all- Does your fiance/husband know you are speaking with him??

Second of all- I think it IS NEITHER healthy or “mature” to converse with your ex who treated you so badly about big milestones in your lives…let alone get together for drinks. I know you can make yourself feel like this is the “mature” thing to do..But- personally, I think it’s not smart at all. I wouldn’t speak to him anymore-and definitely do not meet him for drinks-especially without your husband present. I’m not accusing you of being a cheater or anything like that–but it sounds like talking with him is bringing up some emotional baggage that cannot be good for you or your marriage. 

Good Luck!

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@secretsally: that’s great your open with him! I’m sure it’s just having contact again that is bringing up thoughts of him…which lead to the dreams! Hopefully they’ll go away soon!

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