- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
Not my relationship my Fiance and I have never been closer…
but seriously, I have had two bakers bail on me though out this thing, so I called a new one today and when I told her the date and that I can’t come in right away to meet since I don’t live in the city I am getting married in I could hear the panic in her voice. Awesome that makes me feel… clam. lol not! I am sure she will stick around and get it done (all be it more expensively than we were hoping for).
That isn’t the only thing that has gone off course! One of my bridesmaids isn’t talking to me! We got into an argument and I was in the wrong, so when I went to apologize the next day for being such a jerk, instead of accepting my apology she spewed a whole bunch of things she had decided she hated about me, then hung up. I tried writing her an email saying sorry again, but she still won;t talk to me, I had no idea she had so much pent up aggresion for me. So now I am stuck either with only 2 bridesmaids (to my FIs 3 Gms) or I need to upgrade a friend of mine whom I originally made an “usherette” and make her a dress in less than 8 weks, and find some people to usher in her stead.
Seriously some days it barely notice, but others, I can’t think of anythign except how sad it is that one of my closest friends is so mad at me, and then I get mad at myself for being more concerned with the fact that it is screwing up my wedding than the actual friendship. Not that I am MORE concerned with that it is just hard not to focus on that aspect of it.
Am I the only Bride going through stuff like this? is it normal to have soem seriously wedding changing stuff happen so close?