Post # 1
So here’s something I think might interest some of you.
My fiancée and I have gotten into a bit of a sexual rut for the past, oh, I don’t know, year. We have sex maybe once a week and while it’s always really good once we get going, neither of us are very motivated to initiate. We have different sleeping schedules which can make it difficult.
Anyway, the other day he suggested that we try something new: a sex challenge. The plan is to have sex everyday for 21 days, which happens to bring us right up to our wedding day! It’s kind of funny because I’ve heard of couples who don’t have sex at all for the month before their wedding day. We’re obviously taking a different route…
Today is day four and so far it’s going great! I got a bunch of lingerie this past weekend at my bachelorette party so it’s been fun trying that out. We’re laughing and having fun with it, and I feel more open to trying different things since we know we’ll be doing it every day for three weeks. And it kind of takes the pressure off, knowing that it has to happen. 🙂
I’ll keep you posted on how it goes, if anyone’s interested!
Anyone else ever try something like this?
Post # 3
I think I’ve been doing this challenge on accident *blush*
Sounds like an awesome motivator- at first I figured this thread was going to be 21 days without sex and I was like ‘aww hell no! I am not on board with this!’ but I like the way you’re handling it 😉 Enjoy the next couple weeks!
Post # 4
On accident?! Hahahaha!!!
Post # 5
I love the idea of this, but some days I’m just.so.lazy.
My FI however would be SO INCREDIBLY HAPPY if I did this. Maybe I will try it out and just not tell him.
Post # 6
I wish I could motivate DH to do this! 🙁
Post # 7
I completely misunderstood the title of this and thought you were getting sex change surgery…. okay, now that I understand- thats great! I hope it gets things spicy again!
Post # 8
I think this is going to be a great way to really get things going again.. Get some sexual spice in your life. I am going to take this challenge. FI and I are weird when it comes to sex some days we are just so tired and sluggish.. then others he wants to “playtime” like 3 times a day.. I wish we could just get to a happy medium of everyday sex lol.. So maybe we will give this a shot.
Post # 9
HUmmmmm this might be a good idea. The only thing is….I work regular hours and Hubby works overnight. I am leaving ot go to work when he is coming home. Scheduling it in might be kinda hard.
Post # 10
WAit…what do you do about that time of the month?
Post # 11
@PrncssDva: That was my first thought. But other than that it sounds exciting!
Post # 12
@PrncssDva: I would guess that is why it is 21 days. So the other week could be your “time off” for aunt flo
Post # 13
I really should do this, but zoloft has KILLED any sex drive I had.
I’ve even told my bf feel free to initiate because I still enjoy it, I just have no ability to start.
Post # 14
I’d totally be up for this if we weren’t long-distance! Right now we do the Reader’s Digest condensed version.. 4 days straight, lol.
Post # 15
Wow thats a lot of sex lol! I personally would hate to have that much sex because I get sore after each time for some reason. It’s once a week for me and fiance and thats just how I like it.. notice how I only said “I” lol. 😉