Post # 1
but not about getting married! I am just so worried that I will be crying the entire day!! Anyone else have that worry?? I was just watching a movie that was about a wedding (kind of – our family wedding) and when it got to the part of the actual wedding I thought about my dad walking me down the aisle or him getting emotional before and during the walk and I just want to cry right then! My emotions have been all out of whack lately and pray that my BC kicks back in and gets them on track in time!
Guess I’ll put my wedding party on joke mode to keep me laughing and distracted! haha
Post # 3
I’m not a cryer so I haven’t had that worry. Although a little cry may be nice. Thus far, I have cried when thinking about the father daughter dance songs and that suprised me. I am getting married the day after you and can’T believe we’Re almost at the one month mark.
Post # 4
I watched that movie! I didnt cry during that…but the past few days I cant even watch say yes to the dress without crying!!!
Post # 5
I thought I would cry during the ceremony, but instead I was so excited to finally be getting married. I couldn’t stop smiling (even though my sister/ MOH was crying so loud I could hear her!). You won’t know what you’re emotions are really going to be until it’s happening 🙂 Good luck!
Post # 6
I am an emotional wreck right now at 10 days out!
I cry at the drop of the hat. At least once a day!!!!! So freakin’ emotiional! If you are getting emotional already I don’t your birth control is going to help!
Don’t worry about it to much if you cry, most of your female guest will cry LOL! And it will be sweet!
Post # 7
@mrsae2010: Hey date twin! I’ve been crying at the drop of a hat as well. SYTTD, sad news stories, commercials . . . yep, complete wreck.
I’m trying to take it one day at a time (one week to go until we can get our marriage licenses!).
Post # 8
YAY date twins! I am SO stressed out about everytyhing, crying at the drop of a hat, etc. I don’t want to screw up my makeup that day! LOL
Post # 9
I was SO SURE I’d be a weeper and didn’t know how I’d keep it together through the vows. I cry at everyone else’s weddings (at my brother’s, I let out this really loud sob in a quiet moment … so embarrassing). Before my wedding, I’d start crying just reading through drafts of the ceremony that our JP sent us. I carried my great-grandma’s lace hanky and made sure the make-up artist used waterproof mascara, but I was absolutely calm throughout our ceremony. No hint of a tear. I just felt glad and serene and a little like walking through a dream. I was almost disappointed not to feel a bit more emotional, but it was fine. In fact, at one moment I could hear my mom crying and I laughed a little.
Either way, no worries. I’ve been to weddings where the bride (and sometimes groom) cry, and it’s nothing but adorable, I promise. Just try to relax and go with whatever happens. You might surprise yourself!
Post # 10
Well, I am a cryer, and I did cry… a lot. But its who I am! So, oh well. I wasn’t an emotional basketcase, but I did shed some tears during the most special moments (when all the girls saw me dressed up, when I walked down the aisle, during the vows, our first dance, the dance with my lil bro’s, even his dance with his mother) but to me it just meant that I was present in the moment and could appreciate the fact that we finally made it and that all of our hard work had paid off! You’ll be fine, a few tears never hurt anybody! Don’t sweat it 🙂
Post # 11
OMG im so scared im going to cry like a baby! I have really bad PMS and Im afraid I might break down the entire day. Nice to know I’m not alone.
Post # 12
I am not a cryer but I did tear up briefly duing the ceremony. I sternly reminded myself that I did not want to ruin my make-up and that there were pics being taken later. And I didn’t cry another drop!
Post # 13
so glad I’m not the only emotional wreck! I told my FI my fear and he said that he will probably be crying too but it would be cause his dad will not be there (passed away) but it made me feel better thinking he will be teary eyed with me! I work in a group home on overnights and pretty sure my clients think Im crazy cause they have heard me bawling over things (like the nicholas sparks book I just finished!) haha thank god my coworkers all understand with working so much and the wedding just over a month away!
Just gotta make sure I wear as much waterproof makeup as possible!
Post # 14
I’m 38 days out and worried that I’ll be crying the whole day as well as I’m a pretty emotional person.
I don’t really have any advice, just send you best wishes!