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3weeks away, nervous

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    starry    December 18, 2010  

    I'm nervous! Anyone else?! No one seems to be on the December board these days:) I think I am most nervous of being the center of attention since I am very shy.We're only having like 65 people though, but still that's a lot to me! It's all coming together, I hope it turns out good:)

     

    My little checklist: I'm finishing my alterations, meeting with my DJ soon(excited about that), touching up on a few things with my baker, touching up on a couple things with my florist, buying my fiance's ring tomorrow. Anyways, most things are going okay.

    Goodluck and best wishes to everyone! :)

     
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    knitting    December 18, 2010  

    I'm nervous too!  Where did all the time go?  We still don't have a finalized guest list which is really stressing me out.  We're having our tasting today, so I'm really excited for that.

     
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    Gemstone    July 2011   Cincinnati

    Be excited, ladies! Everything will go awesome! :)

     
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    rlsh86    January 29, 2011   Florida

    congratulations to you both december ladies!  some nervousness is fine.  ;)

     
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    kalliela    January 22, 2011  

    My date says Jan but bumped it up to Dec. 18th too..ugh..at least for now! Unless I just can't get it together..then it's elope time! I live in Reno, so eloping is super easy..and tempting! There is so much to do I may not even have a bridal shower..idk. That just seems like another thing to do! Things on the list include: Paying off the photographer, the church, lol this is BAD but invites?? hahaha. That's why Dec.18th may just not fly but there is only that weekend that is available for the pastors/friends. There are 2 other weddings in our church in Dec..and on Jan 1 so..nothing else too available. No other weekends are avail in Jan before my man has to go back to school. It sucks. Tuxes, hair and make up crap..BM dresses, if I have any lol..ummm ahhh! lol insane! We planned crap way too late and really weren't sure about what date would be available. Just goin downtown sounds good right now. Good luck to all of you ladies!

    Oh yeah, I am also HATING the center of attention part as I am shy too! That part sucks the most! Let's pray for one another! haha!

     
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    auddurz91    December 18, 2010   Axton

    I'm am right there with you!!  I am freaking out!!  I am moving all of my stuff out from one house to another this week and there's a good bit of stuff I haven't completed.  Plus what is it with people failing to RSVP????

     
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    nzbride    December 4, 2010   canada

    I'm December 18th too and feeling really nervous and stressed! We are down to the wire people!

    I am doing things like favors, seating plans and menu choices.

    Hair trial next week....

    I think 18th December will be here before we know it

     
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    knitting    December 18, 2010  

    i'm so glad I'm not the only one!  

     

     
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    Lindsay12.31.2010    December 31, 2010   Missouri

    Ditto at pretty much everything above!

    We meet with our officiant tomorrow, my hair and make-up trial is Saturday, my final fitting is Saturday too.  Phew!

     
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    ilovegaleharold    December 21, 2010  

    Same here! Definitely getting nervous. Our wedding is Dec. 21, but I'm feeling rushed trying to get everything together before we leave for Hawaii. Hair trial is next Saturday along with my final fitting. My makeup will be day of, so I'm hoping that goes well. I don't do well with being the center of attention either which is why we decided to elope! It's still nerve wracking though!

     
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    ShantayR    May 28, 2011   Clarksville, Tennessee

    OMG reading everyone else post is making me nervous. Our wedding date is May 28,2011.

     
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    KaitlinHudson    December 18, 2010   Patuxent River, MD

    Oh ladies. At least you aren't going through a last minute venue change. I called the venue today to ask about the sound system and got that an automated message telling me the place was gone. Shut down. Moved. No trace. FUUUUUUUUUU--

    Ahem. Luckily we were able to find someone else to do it and now it's just notifying everyone of the change in venues. Stress? What's that? Ohhhh you mean that  day-to-day gut feeling I have.... 

     
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    kalliela    January 22, 2011  

    WTHeck! REALLY? That freggin sucks! I am sorry! Hopefully things work out!!!

     
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    knitting    December 18, 2010  

    @KaitlinHudson: That really sucks.  I'm so glad you've found another venue.  This happened to my friend last year, and while it was really stressful, the wedding was so wonderful and so much fun in the end.  It will all work out!

     
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    AngieN    December 31, 2010   Phila

    OMG I would throw up if our venue closed.  What about your deposit?  Is there anyway to get it back???

    My stress is that my MOH is in the hospital right now.  She needs to get her gallbladder out, but has some complications that might push it to Monday or Tues.  Meanwhile, she hasn't had her dress altered yet - we were going to do that today.  Good news is she hasn't eaten a thing since Tues and she has been trying to lose weight (just had a baby 6 months ago).  UGH. 

     
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    lizzy1311    January 11, 2011  

    I'm a January bride, but am definitely nervous as well! We're doing a DW so everything has been through phone and e-mail! 

     
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    Dora1910    December 19, 2010   Jamaica

    Im December 19th. I really can"t describe how i've been feeling lately. Most mornings I just want to stay home so I can finish this list of things that i have to do. I'm stressed out dealing with the Fiance who feels as if he has all the  time in the world to get things done. Mind you, we still have to finalize our seating chart, print placecards,  the groomsmen gifts have not arrived in the mail as yet plus a few other things. I dont have time to eat anymore and forget sleep...that just does not happen. I feel like my stomach is in a knot all day. Dont get me wrong Im super excited at this point but im just anxious to see all the things that ive been planning finally come to fruition.

     
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    starry    December 18, 2010  

    @Dora1910: Oh wow, I haven't been sleeping either, and there's still a lot left to do! 

     

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