Post # 1
So we’re about 4.5 months out from the wedding, and FI has yet to ask the rest of his groomsment to be in the wedding party! He has asked his brother, who will be his best man, and one of his close friends, who will be a groomsmen. But I know he wants at least two more guys in the party, and he hasn’t asked them yet! He doesn’t even know which two (or three or four) guys he’s going to ask. I keep telling him he needs to give them a couple of months notice in case they need to buy/rent a tux (the groomsmen will be in tuxes), but he keeps pushing it off.
Any other guys procrastinating on their groomsmen choices?
Post # 3
Geez, I did find it interesting how my fiance’s circle of friends seemed less defined than mine. I picked my sister and my two current roommates. He picked his brother and then luckily the next two were easy I think ONLY because he had previously been in each of their weddings. If we had gone for more attendants, groomsman #4 for have been a hard decision for him and we’d probably be in the same boat as you!
I suppose it’s up to him to get his attendants there — so hopefully this isn’t causing you TOO much stress. And, it isn’t uncommon to see weddings with an uneven number of attendants on each side… so if it comes down to that it’d probably be ok.