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    MrsSpinella09    December 19, 2009   West Virginia

    I have 5 days til my wedding, and i feel strangely calm.. I figured I'd be freaking out, but I feel no different. Any married Gals (or close to being married gals) wanna tell me how you felt/are feeling when the wedding got closer?

     
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    jennifer_espos    June 18, 2010   NYC

    Yay, so exciting!  Its so awesome that you're calm, you're like my hero.  I'm pretty sure I won't be but I've been fine thus far so there's hope.  Although, I'm pretty sure in my case, this is just the calm before the storm.  I hope your wedding is amazing and everything you've dreamed of :o)

     
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    I am so excited for you! Congrats!

     
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    worcesterbride    August 15, 2009   live in NYC, wedding in Worcester, MA

    I got the eerie calm too! I think I felt like I'd set up all the dominoes, and knocked the first one over - everything was figured out and set up, and it was out of my hands; things might go wrong (and in fact some did), but I'd done my best and handed it over to my vendors, and that was it.

     
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    JamaicaBride    May 14, 2011   Charlotte, NC

    @MrsSpinella...now that I know the date (12/22/09)...I am feeling pretty calm myself. I finished up my vows and formatted them to look nice and that was my last big hurdle...other than packing. I am sure that I probably will be a little frantic on Friday b/c I have to finish Christmas shopping before we fly out on Sunday but overall...calm...and a little giddy...LOL

     
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    MrsSpinella09    December 19, 2009   West Virginia

    wow @jamaicaBride.. You just now chose your wedding date??? Grats to you!

     
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    otb    December 31, 2009   Chicago, IL

    I'm freaking out!  I have a little more time to go before you, but as of today, I am in total freak out mode!  Ahhhh!  I had a bad, bad, bad freak accident happen with the e-ring, and still have about a gazillion and one projects to complete!!!! I'm hoping after this weekend, which I have set aside as a total project working weekend, that I will be a little calmer!  It's good that you are so calm though!  I hope to be that calm when I am 5 days out!

     
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    JamaicaBride    May 14, 2011   Charlotte, NC

    @MrsSpinella....I didn't choose it. My FI planned out entire wedding sans input from me...LOL! We are leaving for Jamaica on Sunday...yay!!

     
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    okqueenbee    Dec 4, 2009   OKC

    About a week before the wedding, it was a little of both. Sometimes I would burst into tears for no reason, and them sometimes a feeling of elation would overtake me and I would feel totally calm.

    Honestly, the day of the wedding I was mostly calm and didn't even cry much..the weekend after was great, but it was the week AFTER my wedding that I got super-emotional and moody. I think all the stress finally hit me after it was over because LAST week was HORRIBLE. I was in SUCH a bad mood, over all kinds of small stuff! My poor hubs didn't know WHAT the heck was wrong with me, and to be honest, neither did I!

    But I am feeling much better this week (my 2nd week of marriage :) and hope to remain that way.

    Just remember to relax (sounds like you're doing a good job) and don't worry about the small stuff!

    Congrats!

     

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