(Closed) 5th Bridesmaid…or not??

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I say go for it! 

Post # 4
Hostess
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

I don’t know…to me it would seem like she was a second choice. Do you think she could feel that way? 

Post # 6
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1902 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I think go for it! I don’t think she would feel that she was “second choice” given that she’s just organised her own wedding – I’m sure she would understand the circumstances.

As for having to organise bridesmaids – maybe my lot are unique, but there doesn’t seem to be too much organising necessary for bridesmaids, especially if she recently got married. I’m sure she knows what bridesmaids ‘should’ do.

Post # 7
Hostess
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

@meetmethere2013:  I gotcha. Well if she seems receptive to the idea then go ahead. Maybe it’s just me but I would feel like “Guess what? You’re my sixth best friend!” 

Post # 10
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3078 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@meetmethere2013:  I’ll tell you what, I added a fifth bridesmaid after my bridal shower.  One of my best friends and I reconnected after my shower and I decided to ask her to be in my wedding (about 4 months prior) and it was seriously the BEST decision I could have made!  I was so happy to have her.

Post # 11
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3755 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Glad you asked her!! I’m sure she’ll be thrilled. I’m having 8! So I think 5 is not too much. I’m afraid 8 is going to be rough……….

Post # 13
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3078 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@meetmethere2013: YAY!!!  So glad to hear she said yes =)  My BM that I added later in the game was SO helpful!  I was nervous she was going to be offended that I didn’t ask her initially, but she totally understood and was so excited when I asked her!  I’m happy for you!

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