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How do you feel about the good old 69 position?
Based on this article:
http://www.glamour.com/sex-love-life/blogs/smitten/2011/06/things-that-sound-sexy-but-are-3.html
I like it every once in a while. Its hard for me to focus on pleasing him while he's pleasing me but it's fun to change it up sometimes!
I like it every once in a while but always have a hard time focusing and concentrating on DH when we do it. So I sometimes feel like I should ignore all the good feelings I'm having to be able to pleasure him.
@PitBulLover: I swear - you and I seem to think the exact same way in so many threads! I read your reply and thought "That's exactly what I was about to type!"
ETA: So I just kind of realized that it is probably strange for me to make this realization on this thread in particlar (versus a non-sex related thread that we think alike on). Sorry about that! :)
I'll do it if FI wants to. Normally we take turns...so we can ahem...focus on either person.
Yay! In general. Lol. Not something either of us would consider a "favorite" or something we do often, but I would say I'm more of a fan than not. It can be fun.
Eh. You should add that as an option. I don't love it, since I can't focus on what I'm doing OR enjoy what's being done (seems silly to me), but I'm up for it on occasion.
I'm all for it. I'm a good multitasker ;). I do like to keep things separate as well though. But it is fun here and there.
@Mrs.KMM: lol I think its awesome and I do not feel weird that you made this realization on a sex thread! Great minds :-D
I hate that position to distracting. If want to do oral take turns other than that no 69 here
Never done it, but I'm kind of conflicted about it. It's mostly a nay though, at this point.
I think I am ADD when we do that. I can't focus on myself while paying attention to him.
We both love it! Not all the time, but I like the angle. We don't need to be doing each other at the same time. When I get close, I stop what I'm doing and he goes to town and I go. Same with him. If he gets close before I do, he stops what he's doing to concentrate on the orgasm.
The Italian Hanger is another fave position of ours. Oh! And the "wheelbarrow."
@Miss Tattoo: What on earth is the "Italian Hanger?" I know what the "Plough" is, but the "Wheelbarrow?" - I presume you on your hands, him behind with your legs up straight behind you?
Ps. I'm too scared to google these...
lol The Italian Hanger is ALMOST like the wheelbarrow. Imagine pushing a wheelbarrow. Its just that The Italian Hanger is like the extreme wheelbarrow. You have to do a hand stand and your parter holds your legs while he is on his knees on the bed. It sounds complicated. lol Its really a nice angle though. Just dont do it for long because all the blood rushes to your head. lol

Wheelbarrow

Italian Hanger.
lol The Italian Hanger takes practice.
@Ivyperks: Dear God woman!!!!
Literally ROFTL..... (You've managed to seriously cheer me up, so thanks!) On a side note, how did you ever figure that one out! (The Italian Hanger)
@Ivyperks: lol I have no idea. I remember reading it about it. Maybe it was in a book or on the internet. I seriously can't remember and I was like "I want to try that!"
Maybe I found it looking for tantric sex positions or kama sutra reading. lol I wish I could remember.
@Miss Tattoo: HAHAHA I love the barbies!!!
i don't really like 69 all that much.
@Miss Tattoo: I'm in awe! I'm not American, but I think the phrase is 'props'? lol
I don't like oral period... giving or getting... it makes me cringe.
We get too distracted! Also it's uncomfortable; I'm over a foot shorter than my husband.
Hey, he's my husband now, crazy!
i don't mind it once in a while but we never finish that way. Plus even tho we are not that much different in height, we still can't get the angle right, or rather.... reach properly. But its a fun porno-y visual to get this warmed up!
I like it, but not more than just alternating. It's nice to switch it up
I think it's great in theory, but not so great in practice.
We do it sometimes, just to mix things up, but both of us enjoy giving oral, and like to be able to focus completely on each other, and that's just not something either of us can do when we're doing it at the same time. And plus, one of us (usually me) ends up feeling awkwardly positioned, and that takes away from the experience. And the height difference (almost a foot) doesn't help any either.
@Miss Tattoo: re: Italian Hangover: I'm seriously impressed. I don't think I could even try to do it without laughing. Plus, I have this fear I'd somehow break his penis (penile fracture, I think is the proper term).
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