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69 - yay or nay ?

posted 11 months ago in Intimacy
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    Gingersnap    August 2000   Ontario, Canada

    How do you feel about the good old 69 position?

    Based on this article:

    http://www.glamour.com/sex-love-life/blogs/smitten/2011/06/things-that-sound-sexy-but-are-3.html

     
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    phoenix718       MA

    Yum!

     
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    ValerieJene1022    July 16, 2011   troy, ny

    Not OK.  It's just kind of distracting.

     
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    smith2be    May 7, 2011  

    When I was younger I was all about it...now not so much.

     
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    PitBulLover    August 21, 2010  

    I like it every once in a while. Its hard for me to focus on pleasing him while he's pleasing me but it's fun to change it up sometimes!

     
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    Crisark    November 5, 2011   WV

    Eh not a fav for me but he likes it sometimes.

     
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    brighteyedgirl    August 31, 2012   Ontario, Canada

    Big YAY! from us.

     
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    jazinlove      

    Once in a while it's fun. Most of the time their is too much going on to enjoy..

     
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    ijustrockout    August 7, 2011   isle of palms, sc.

    @brighteyedgirl: ditto!

     
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    Jaynee    July 30, 2011   Sonoma

    Eh, doesn't do much for me.  It's too distracting

     
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    Mrs.KMM    July 17, 2010   Atlanta, GA (wedding in Indianapolis, IN)

    I like it every once in a while but always have a hard time focusing and concentrating on DH when we do it.  So I sometimes feel like I should ignore all the good feelings I'm having to be able to pleasure him.

    @PitBulLover: I swear - you and I seem to think the exact same way in so many threads!  I read your reply and thought "That's exactly what I was about to type!"

    ETA: So I just kind of realized that it is probably strange for me to make this realization on this thread in particlar (versus a non-sex related thread that we think alike on).  Sorry about that! :)

     
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    napabridekelsey    August 13, 2011   Live in Corvallis, OR/Wedding in Napa, CA

    I'll do it if FI wants to. Normally we take turns...so we can ahem...focus on either person. 

     
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    AmeliaBedelia    March 3, 2012   Georgia

    Yay! In general. Lol. Not something either of us would consider a "favorite" or something we do often, but I would say I'm more of a fan than not. It can be fun.

     
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    dcdt212    July 19, 2014  

    I don't care either way. FI loves it so I'll do it for him ;)

     
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    Miss OBG    May 2011  

    Eh.  You should add that as an option.  I don't love it, since I can't focus on what I'm doing OR enjoy what's being done (seems silly to me), but I'm up for it on occasion.

     
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    Corilee13    October 13, 2012  

    I'm all for it. I'm a good multitasker ;). I do like to keep things separate as well though. But it is fun here and there.

     
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    PitBulLover    August 21, 2010  

    @Mrs.KMM: lol I think its awesome and I do not feel weird that you made this realization on a sex thread! Great minds :-D

     
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    Sassygrn    June 4, 2011   Minnesota

    I hate that position to distracting.  If want to do oral take turns other than that no 69 here

     
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    helenberrycrunch    January 1, 1992  

    We aren't fans.

     
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    Mrs Grape    December 10, 2010  

    @Corilee13: Ditto! ;P

     
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    Running Elley    June 19, 2011   Fresno, CA

    Neither of us really like it.

     
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    KatNewby    July 15, 2014   Michigan (For Now)

    Never done it, but I'm kind of conflicted about it. It's mostly a nay though, at this point.

     
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    MapleBecky    July 9, 2011   Canada

    I think I am ADD when we do that.  I can't focus on myself while paying attention to him.

     
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    Miss Tattoo    September 15, 2012   Pittsburgh, PA

    We both love it! Not all the time, but I like the angle. We don't need to be doing each other at the same time. When I get close, I stop what I'm doing and he goes to town and I go. Same with him. If he gets close before I do, he stops what he's doing to concentrate on the orgasm. 

    The Italian Hanger is another fave position of ours. Oh! And the "wheelbarrow."

     
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    Ivyperks    August 8, 2012  

    Hell. Yes.

     
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    Ivyperks    August 8, 2012  

    @Miss Tattoo: What on earth is the "Italian Hanger?" I know what the "Plough" is, but the "Wheelbarrow?" - I presume you on your hands, him behind with your legs up straight behind you?

    Ps. I'm too scared to google these...

     
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    Miss Tattoo    September 15, 2012   Pittsburgh, PA

    lol The Italian Hanger is ALMOST like the wheelbarrow. Imagine pushing a wheelbarrow. Its just that The Italian Hanger is like the extreme wheelbarrow. You have to do a hand stand and your parter holds your legs while he is on his knees on the bed. It sounds complicated. lol Its really a nice angle though. Just dont do it for long because all the blood rushes to your head. lol 

     
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    Miss Tattoo    September 15, 2012   Pittsburgh, PA

    69 - yay or nay ? :  wedding The Wheelbarrow

    Wheelbarrow 

    69 - yay or nay ? :  wedding Std 7

     

    Italian Hanger. 

    lol The Italian Hanger takes practice. 

     
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    Ivyperks    August 8, 2012  

    @Ivyperks: Dear God woman!!!!

    Literally ROFTL..... (You've managed to seriously cheer me up, so thanks!) On a side note, how did you ever figure that one out! (The Italian Hanger)

     
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    Miss Tattoo    September 15, 2012   Pittsburgh, PA

    @Ivyperks: lol I have no idea. I remember reading it about it. Maybe it was in a book or on the internet. I seriously can't remember and I was like "I want to try that!" 
    Maybe I found it looking for tantric sex positions or kama sutra reading. lol I wish I could remember. 

     
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    pinkandsparkly    November 12, 2011   Boston

    @Miss Tattoo: HAHAHA I love the barbies!!!

     

    i don't really like 69 all that much.

     
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    KatyElle      

    Honestly, it seems like way too much work to be even remotely appealing.

     
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    Ivyperks    August 8, 2012  

    @Miss Tattoo: I'm in awe! I'm not American, but I think the phrase is 'props'? lol

     
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    HappilyEverAfter54    June 23, 2012   Central Pennsylvania

    I don't like oral period... giving or getting... it makes me cringe.

     
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    Firefighter_Bride    August 13, 2011   British Columbia

    Definatly a YAY for us!!!

     
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    noodlesploosh    June 25, 2011  

    We get too distracted! Also it's uncomfortable; I'm over a foot shorter than my husband. 

    Hey, he's my husband now, crazy!

     
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    Ivyperks    August 8, 2012  

    @noodlesploosh:*like!* (The husband part!)

     
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    Oneeleven    April 7, 1992   Ontario, Canada, Getting married in the Mayan Riviera

    i don't mind it once in a while but we never finish that way. Plus even tho we are not that much different in height, we still can't get the angle right, or rather.... reach properly. But its a fun porno-y visual to get this warmed up!

     
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    fvsoccer    November 4, 2011   Colorado

    I like it, but not more than just alternating. It's nice to switch it up

     
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    Mrs Sarah McK    October 10, 2010   Harrisburg, PA

    I think it's great in theory, but not so great in practice. 

    We do it sometimes, just to mix things up, but both of us enjoy giving oral, and like to be able to focus completely on each other, and that's just not something either of us can do when we're doing it at the same time. And plus, one of us (usually me) ends up feeling awkwardly positioned, and that takes away from the experience. And the height difference (almost a foot) doesn't help any either. 

    @Miss Tattoo: re: Italian Hangover: I'm seriously impressed. I don't think I could even try to do it without laughing. Plus, I have this fear I'd somehow break his penis (penile fracture, I think is the proper term).

     

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