Post # 1
My wedding is 81 days away and it seems the closer the day gets the more miserable I get. The day before christmas eve my car had a flat and I had to take my youngest son to the emergency room. On Christmas eve my cars fixed tire blew out and we had to replace it and my parents didnt even take a break from their divorce talk. Today my father decides my wedding isn’t important enough for him to rent a tuxedo,so he says ” Ill wear my nice dress shirt and pants and buy new shoes”. I mean this is why im even contemplating to cancel the father daughter dance. Well not just this, I have a prior post that explains why I dont want to dance with him. I just can’t seem to get out of this funk! Im trying to stay positive and Im thankful for the many blessing I do have.
Post # 3
Aw sweetie, I’m sorry. Try not to worry too much about the wedding stuff. It really does work itself out. Just ignore your Dad, don’t do a father/daughter dance, and keep things as close to how you want them as you can.
Post # 4
I am so sorry your are in the wedding funk mood. I have 89 days left and am in the same funk. Maybe it is just the time frame? Try to ignore the thing about your dad or tell him what you think. We have decided to do a parents dance instead of one for just one parent. Do you think that might be a better fit for you?
Post # 5
Thank you ladies.
Nola a parents dance sounds like a great idea. Thanks. I also read your post about your cousin passing away. Im sorry for your loss and my prayers are with you and your family.
Post # 6
My wedding is further out than yours, but I’m also just feeling down! Seems like life just sucks in general right about now. I’m trying remind myself it will get better, this is just a season in my life and everything will be fine…but this has been going on for too long!
I hope things straighten themselves out for you. I’m also not doing a father-daughter dance, because I don’t believe my dad has “earned” it. I guess you have to think of what will make YOU happy the day of, and whether or not you’ll regret doing it/not doing it afterwards.