(Closed) Emotional

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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485 posts
Helper bee

Well I am not married yet, but I have heard that the first year of marriage is usually the hardest for most couples, as it is a big period of adjustment. Here in the UK, a large percentage of divorces occur among couples who have been married less than 2 years.

So I don’t think you’re abnormal or there is anything wrong with your relationship. You’re just adjusting.

Post # 4
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443 posts
Helper bee

I agree with BellsForHer.  I also hear that the first year is the hardest, you guys will pull through!  As for the weight gain, isn’t true that a lot of people struggle with the post wedding weight? Ha ha!!  You should be fine.  I’m not married yet either but I’ve certainly seen and heard of this many times!:)

 

Good luck!

Post # 5
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1 posts
Wannabee
  • Wedding: January 2011

You guys need to do something to get that spark back! 🙂 Go to dinner.  Go for a walk on a beach?  Have a picnic? Do something that it’s just the two of you that you both will enjoy and not think of other things like him finding a job, stressful things etc.  Take some time out for eachother.  & what Bellsforher said is true! I’ve heard the same thing.  Work through it talk to eachother and things shall get better.  He may just be stressed or having a hard time dealing with being unemployed.  Guys & their EGOS.. u know he may feel bad because he is the man and he may feel like he’s supposed to be supporting you. 

I can kind of relate, lately my FI & I have been arguing a lot too! :/ making me think twice about getting married!

Have you seen Fireproof?  You should watch it.. very good movie about marriage.

Don’t give up hang in there 🙂

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