Relationship

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Relat:  Go for it but keep your eyes open

Post # 4
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Relat:  I would meet him (e.g. for dinner). I would not share a room for the night.

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Relat:  So… he’s invited you on a date but (effectively) only on the condition that you share a room? Maybe I’m a “prude”, but I don’t like doing dates like that.

You say you’re on vacation. How far is the journey, and how would you be travelling (car, or something else)? Is it possible to meet him for lunch and then travel home?

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@Relat: I’m totally open with my male friends, so I would have no problem crashing in one’s hotel room. However, it sounds like there might be something more romantic between you, so i think that is something only you can feel out. There’s definitely nothing wrong with you sleeping over, but if you aren’t comfortable with it then don’t do it. I think you need to clarify what your feelings are for this man, and what you want out of a meeting with him. Are you looking to spark a romance? For a one-night stand? For something totally platonic? Once you clarify answers to those questions, you should have an easier time 1) deciding whether to visit him, and 2) setting appropriate boundaries if you do visit him. Good luck!

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Relat:  am I weird for thinking this sounds like a booty call?

suddenly misses you and kindly invites you to come visit him, you could also share a room! Sounds a little to sweet for my liking….

However, I am old fashioned and you are an adult. Do what you want 🙂 

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Relat:  still sounds like a one night stand/booty call to me

“spend all your money to have sex with me so that I don’t have to lift a finger, if you want I can sugarcoat this booty call by pretending it was offered out of purity!” 

Sounds like you have serious interest and I personally feel as though you could end up dissappointed and hurt. However, you can chose to go if that is what you want. Only you can make this call 🙂 

Post # 14
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Blushing bee

@Payless:  @Relat:  Booty call is the same thing I thought! It certainly sounds like one to me.

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

I’d totally go. You’re single! Why not have a booty call? They can be super fun!

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