Post # 1
So I’m on match.com and a week ago I received an email from this girl. I was really surprised to be the one receiving the email, I thought most women liked to be approached first but I guess I was wrong. So we have been emailing for the past week, hadn’t talked on the weekend until last night. I think she went home by her family for the weekend. So I’m taking her out to dinner. So I was just wondering if is any advice out there for me. I’m trying to be positive about it because it seems like we have a lot of things in common. But I’m the kind of person who sees the glass half empty and thinks she just is going out to dinner with me because she couldn’t say no. Hopefully I’m wrong.
Post # 4
She emailed you first. Don’t start thinking she’s going out with you out of an obligation. Trust me… If she really didnt want to go, she wouldn’t have said yes. Be yourself and have fun. Don’t put too much pressure on it.
Post # 5
Dont over think things. Just be nice, but confident. Listen to her, but talk also. Be polite and have table manners. Be yourself, but on your best behavior. This just isnt about getting her to like you, it’s about seeing if are compatible.
PS- read Mars and Venus on a Date. I think it would help you.
Post # 6
Let yourself have fun – don’t worry about where it might go in the future or why she said yes. Just enjoy the date for itself. Keep in mind the things you have in common in case the conversation is slow.
Post # 7
Keep it light and fun! Be yourself.