(Closed) Twitter-Outburst

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Hostess
18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I don’t see why she would even think that she would be a bridesmaid when you haven’t been close for many many years.  I know she is family but honestly you don’t need someone with moodyness like that in your wedding party!  Especially if she can’t even tell you that she was mad at you for the past 4 years!

Post # 4
Member
412 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Who posts that nonsense on Twitter?  Don’t they realize that it is quite public.  I would say just ignore it.  You don’t want her to be a part of the wedding if that’s what shes doing.  I’m not sure why she’s been upset for 4 years but that’s quite immature to bring up at this time.  I may have a different view as I have too many cousins to count but she doesn’t seem to be worth your worries.  Just let her know (through your aunt if that’s all you can do) that the lines of communication are open if she ever wants to talk about it like an adult.

Post # 5
Member
972 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Just ignore her, I think she just wants to start up some drama. I kind of had a similar situation with a cousin of mine. She has always felt that we’re in competition so she’s always trying to one up me.  However, I was completely unaware of this situation which has apparently been going on since we were 4 or 5 and I was “ALWAYS the princess and she was always the maid” until she called me out on it. I was like “Wha?!??? (insert confused face)” and then proceeded to tell me that was the reason I wasn’t one of her bridesmaids. Seriously who needs to watch soap operas with wedding drama. 

Post # 6
Member
682 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Ignore her and your Aunt. And, since either of them don’t want to talk to you or your mom, take them up on their kind offer to avoid drama at your wedding and don’t send them an invitation either.

Post # 8
Member
4765 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas

Wow, that completely immature and ridiculous. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this! I have family members (very) similar to this and I know how hard it is. My only advice, like the others said, is to ignore it because you know you’re not doing anything wrong. They’re the ones being ridiculous.

Post # 9
Member
409 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

ohhhh the things that ppl will say over the internet that they wont say in person. ignore her and don’t allow her to follow you on twitter… lol.

Post # 10
Member
1883 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

wow-yeah…the sound awful. i would just ignore them. also-if she’s been so mad at you why would she even want to be in your wedding? hellooo drama queen.

Post # 11
Member
4567 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

… she’s mad because you didn’t pay her enough attention at your grandmother’s funeral 4 years ago? Legitimately? Ignore this whole situation. Totally not worth the drama.

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