Post # 1
SO and I are LDR (3 hours) and so consequently we try to see eachtother every weekend, this though, does not always work out. 🙁
This weekend he spent here in my hometown with my family has been the worst waiting gah! I’ve had yet! I have been an emotional rollercoaster with him. I feel so bad, but I just want to marry the fool already! I spent a few weeks at the “OMG HE’S PLANNING ON PROPOSING SOON!” stage and sat and obssessed over Weddingbee. But, now I’m very blah about it all, about wedding talk, proposal talk, and relationship talk. The last one not being “blah” about our relationship, I love him with all my heart, but just talking about it.
Is this normal?! I feel bad for being a little b*tchy, but I’m so sick of waiting!! Anyone else in the same boat?
Post # 3
I spent a few weeks at the “OMG HE’S PLANNING ON PROPOSING SOON!” stage and sat and obssessed over Weddingbee. But, now I’m very blah about it all, about wedding talk, proposal talk, and relationship talk.
@miss.wiggums:I have been through this exact same ‘phase’!!! UGH…I still find myself bouncing back and forth between feeling excited/anxious to feeling BLAH. Sorry you had a bad weekend…hope things look up this week!
Post # 4
I feel ya girlfriend they say, distract yourself with a hobby or, stranger still, start planning your wedding. I feel like I am in the waiting phase. I was a little miffed since he had me go and pick out a ring but it has been like a month or so and I am on pins and needles about when he is going to pop the question. It makes me want to ask if he even wants to be in the relationship, but well ladies perhaps he is saving or planning to make the engagment very romantic. So yes the best we can do is cool our heels er… ring finger and pick up a hobby, hang out with girlfriends and when you are a little fustrated write about it here.
Just remember christmas is right around the corner.
Post # 5
Yeah, I’m definitely right there with you. I had a total meltdown and started a “fight” with him over “why he doesn’t like me that much” this past weekend…Needless to say, I was a hot mess.
Fortunately, he knows how to deal with my crazy side and make me feel a lot better about everything. Sometimes all I want is some reassurance that it’s actually going to happen!!