A few deep breaths. Let the waiting BEGIN!

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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338 posts
Helper bee

@rupavach:  Hi! new here? congrats about the update on your timeline! 6 months go by soooo fast! Think he might do it for valentine’s day?

You are so right, I loved the part of “we are in charge of how we choose to react to it”.

I just spent Christmas with my SO and although I knew there’d be no ring, there is always hope haha but even though I didn’t get a proposal I didn’t storm out or got mad, I was happy just to be with him so I totally can relate to what you said.

My bday is coming up soon so I wan to have a talk with him before the end of the year so we can talk about where we are and where we’re going, not ultimatum but just making sure we’re on the same page as far as goals, after that I’ll join the SIUP and hope for a proposal soon 🙂

Post # 5
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338 posts
Helper bee

@rupavach:  I’m so sorry about your friends 🙁 just thinking about it makes me sad, it’s such a hard thing to go through 🙁

and well the SIUP is a place where you promise not to talk about engagement/ring/marriage with your SO and/or family.  I think it’d be good to join so you won’t bring it up with your SO and he pushes it even further 🙂

Thanks, I’m hoping for my bday in January but I highly doubt it, I still can dream haha

Post # 6
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425 posts
Helper bee

@rupavach:  Welcome to the bee! It sounds like you already have a timeline that you’re both comfortable with. Yes, just sit back and enjoy the last 6 months (or less) of your single life!

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