(Closed) A friend that you can’t be happy around….

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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6015 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

When you figure out how to deal with them …. can you PLEASE post it?  we have one of them at work, and I’m the only one that still talks to her.  It’s so bad that one of the girls almost decked her on friday.  ughhh

Post # 4
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3176 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I’ve had one friend like that and she is not my friend anymore. There was always so much drama surrounding her and she always had everything way worse. I was in the hospital and she came to visit me and the whole time kept talking about how much worse she was when she was sick and blah blah blah. I wasn’t sure I was doing the right thing ending our friendship but now years later it was obviously the right choice. Some people you are not meant to have lasting friendships with.

Post # 5
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4137 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

that’s not a friend.

it sounds like this might be a temporary thing — she’s depressed. next time you talk, tell her you’re worried, and recommend that she talks to a professional.

Post # 6
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1668 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I had a similar situation and my resolution was to just distance myself.  This person was like a dark cloud and I just got tired of it.  It is well known amongst our other friends and just as you mentioned, we know she is a great person once you get through the muck but for me it wasn’t worth all the tip-toeing etc that had to be done around her.  I didn’t even tell her about my engagement.  Our other mutual friends didn’t want to tell her either.  Her issues are surrounding finding love.  But in the end I decided I didn’t need a friend that I couldn’t share my joys with so I just backed away.  Eventually she saw my ring and said “Is that the real thing?” when I responded yes she just said oh it’s pretty.  No congratulations nada.  So she’s not worth my energy.

Post # 7
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Friends like this i just avoid and let the friendship die a peaceful natural death

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