(Closed) a hurt bm

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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3167 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@keekat: i would just ask her what’s up with the lack of invite. as far as the dress itself, sometimes you end up with a shit dress, it happens. i’ve never liked a single BM dress i’ve work but i wore it because the bride chose it, no questions asked. for my girls i asked their input and they ended up with something very rewearable, but obv not everyone’s like that. if she has a vision that she really wants, i’d just go with it. if you’ve told her how much you dislike her choices then maybe that’s why she only invited the others for the first dress trial.

Post # 5
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3167 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@keekat: yes, just like that. it’s limited information. you spend the majority of the post complaining about the dress, not that you weren’t invited, so i figured you were just as vocal to the bride. no need to get defensive. again, if you have an issue with the bride, talk to her. the others are from out of town so she was probably more worried about getting them in since the window to do it is smaller. but that’s me saying why you weren’t invited, based on the information you’re posting again.

 

Post # 6
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46153 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Give her a call and say that you have learned they are going dress shopping tomorrow. Then let her offer an explanation.

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