(Closed) A little bridal party advice…

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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172 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I completely understand your dilema. When I had a similar situation I thought long and hard about my ladies and would-be ladies, our relationships (past and present) and what I pictured for the wedding day. In the end I decided that if I had to think about whether or not a person should be an attendant, she shouldn’t be. There is a difference between wanting someone at a shower/bachelorette/party and wanting her to stand beside you as you publicly unite yourself your love.

Let your heart be your guide. Good luck!

Post # 4
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35 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I understand. I was maid of honor in my cousins wedding 6 years ago,but now that it’s my turn to choose my wedding party, I just felt that I was a lot closer to other people. It was especially difficult since I was her maid-of-honor, but just remember that it is your wedding and she should understand. By inviting her to showers and other exciting wedding stuff, that should help her see that you still cherish her as a friend and want her to be part of your wedding without being a bridesmaid.

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