(Closed) A little diamond dilemma

posted 6 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
1747 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

You’ve explained this and he still gets upset? I totally get where you are coming from and I would want the band with my ring, too. Even if it’s simple and doesn’t have diamonds.

Could you potentially get one for your one year anniversary?

Post # 4
853 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Wow that’s a stunner! I would get a very simple thin band to wear with it, or switch to my right and get a diamond band for the left. He did a great job though!

Post # 7
437 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I think a thin band (2mm?) would be lovely with you’re sparkler!

Post # 9
205 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

yeah I’d pair it with a thin plain white gold band. A diamond band might blend in too much and make it look lopsided if that makes sense. 🙂

Post # 10
11394 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

You could even do a 1-2mm rose gold band to make it stand out from your e-ring!

Post # 11
269 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@Sweet.Sugar.Rose: That’s what I was going to suggest! Love it! I bet it would look great! Something simple and meaningful like that would really compliment it.

Post # 12
4478 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Oooooo, sparkly.  Smile

I’ve got a sneaky suggestion.  You could tell him you love your ring, and there are days where you’re doing work or going places where you don’t want to damage it, and want a plain band so you don’t have to worry about hurting your wonderful ring.  Then you can ease into wearing them together, and he probably won’t notice.  

Post # 14
587 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Sweet.Sugar.Rose:  A gold band is a nice idea!


I think it’s nice that your husband felt so strongly about picking out the ring himself but maybe you should delicately remind him that this is about you as well. You have fantasies and expectations too! Or tell him that people are always asking you “when’s the wedding” because you dont have a wedding band!


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