(Closed) A little guilty about proposal

posted 6 years ago in Proposals
  • poll: Am I crazy for feeling this way?
    Yes!! : (11 votes)
    26 %
    No, but I didn't/don't feel the same way. : (22 votes)
    51 %
    No, I feel the same way. : (6 votes)
    14 %
    Other : (4 votes)
    9 %
  • Post # 3
    2778 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    How long have you been together and if you don’t mind about how old are you two?

    I don’t think think you should feel guilty, I guess I did a little when I was engaged for a few reasons but mostly I am just happy.  I think the happyness will take over. 

    Post # 4
    227 posts
    Helper bee

    Of course you shouldn’t feel guilty if it feels right for you guys! But whenever anybody gets engaged quickly, there will be comments from the peanut gallery. On the opposite end of the spectrum, if you waited 5+ years, people would have something to say about that, as well. People like to share their opinions. 🙂 The only thing you can do is be happy, enjoy a strong marriage, and prove them wrong. 

    Post # 6
    1030 posts
    Bumble bee

    my parents knew each other for a few years before they got together.

    they were engaged after 3 months, and married 3 months after that. they’ve been happily married for 27 years Smile

    when you know, you know. don’t feel guilty about falling in love!


    Post # 7
    169 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    When you find the one you just know. I wouldnt feel guilty if i were you. My FIs brother was with his Girlfriend for much longer when Mr B proposed to me. she was and still is jealous because our relationship was moving quicker than her own but if its meant to be its meant to be. I moved in with my Fiance after 3 months of Dating and i got a lot of negative comments about that. i knew from day one i would marry him so go with your instincts and do what you want to do. Its your life, your old enough to make our own desicions. You dont learn from siting back. Life is about taking risks…go for it.

    Post # 9
    5065 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2014

    Please don’t feel guilty about celebrating your love and your engagement.  People who love you both as a couple will be happy for you. You’ll see.

    Best of luck xx

    Post # 10
    95 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: March 2015

    Just a thought… Could it be that you are feeling guilty because you know that people will say that it’s too soon, and deep down you also agree?


    Post # 11
    1068 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    Similar thing happened to me, I got engaged after 3 years of dating, but someone I know who’s been dating someone for 5 years and still no ring, she cried, when she found out I was engaged.

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