- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
Who would I be if I didn’t invite my grandparents to our marriage blessing because i am so tired of the shit (excuss my language) my grandma has been putting us through?
I’ve never been so fed up with gma, it’s crazy. I keep telling myself maybe when our marriage blessing is over and done with everything will be fine…
haha i don’t think so because i’ve just remembered she always treated me and Darling Husband so unfair the whole entire 6 years we’ve known each other. Why does she do this? I have no idea.
To sit there and lie in our face and think that Darling Husband is not going to say anything back just because your other grandchildren’s Husband’s BITE THEIR TONGUE. I don’t think so! (DH is not being disrespectful at all)
Bee’s i’ve just been so sick and tired of all the negativity that she has been giving us. I feel like we are always doing something wrong.
The main reason why she act’s like this is becuase her other grandchild, her husband has a good paying job and nice car’s and all that jazz. (he finished college) She want’s everyone to be just like them!
if you didn’t go to college and finish to get “good” money then your noting to her.
Why?! can’t me and Darling Husband do what we do. It’s not like we ask you guys for money or anything. We don’t ask anyone for anything! I’m in school and Darling Husband is not, he does the working & we’re perfectly fine with that. It’s our decision on what we wan’t and need to do for our lives. ugh it’s so annoying!.
We’d go over to share our good news about plans and such(it’s very rare that we do so) and she just brushes it off and says “oh well did you know that so and so are planning this”
Excuss me? did you not just hear what I just said? I at least want “oh thats nice” Even when Darling Husband and I are over to visit(because they complain they never see us) it’s so quiet you can hear a pin drop! they both(gma and gpa) wont say a word to Darling Husband. They won’t even talk to me.It’s like they got something against him.
Grandma tell’s me today you know so and so are getting married outside. I’m thinking, OK and? many people get married outside your point is? then she says yeah they are taking all of the money they get from the wedding to buy a house in cash, I’m glad their doing the right thing with their money
OK and yet again your saying this why grandma?!?!? What are you trying to imply? Are you saying that we don’t know how to “spend” our money?
We live off of one income and We know how to manage our money just fine. Just because we dont flaunt it out like other people do does not mean were broke all of the time!
Darling Husband and I are fine living in our apartment, when the money is right, the money is right. When it’s the right time to get a house we will know when it’s the right time geesh!
she is ALWAYS comparing us to other family members in my family. It’s like she’s never satisfied with our plans and decision making.
Most of the time I stay distant from her just because of every snarky remark that comes out of her mouth I want to….UGH!
I know the KEY to me and Darling Husband is to avoid everything she says…but guess what? guess who lives in the same apartment complex but a different building from their grandparents??…..WE DO! (they live in a building around the corner from ours)
When will it ever end!?..I’m stressed.. I guess my thing is worrying about what everyone else says when they see gma & gpa’s not at our marriage blessing because i’m tired of their shenanigans & can’t take it anymore.
Should I just not invite them, or just leave it alone & not worry about it and focus on Darling Husband and I plans..Because this is going to be a never ending battle with her..It’s not so much of my gpa but the other day he got into it too.
We will be moving to another city sometime next year so i know things will be a little better as long as we don’t VISIT!.
I’m the kind of person who is just too nice, I feel bad for every little thing and i worry too much about other people’s feelings.
help me bee’s!
Is their anything i’m over reacting?