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    alyssaC    July 11, 2015   Colordo Springs, Co

    Just watching all the hate on Facebook right now makes me very sad. I see best friends cussing each other out and family members dis-owning each other over things that can't be changed. The election is over, everyone voted for what they believed in, can't that be enough? Apparently not because people are ripping each other a part. I just saw a woman call her cousin an evil bitch who is going to hell for aborting a child that was conceived from her being raped. I know the cousin and she almost killed herself after the rape and I feel if she carried her child she would have seriously suffered emotionally. I just don't know how people can treat their family and friends like this. I can't wait until this all dies down and I can go back to seeing fun, loving and goofing posts. I defiantly won't be getting on Facebook for a while; I should have stayed away from it tonight. Anyone else feel this way and just wishes every one can respect each other?

     
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    buggaboo6      

    I know how you feel. It's makes me sad that at this time Americans need to come together but they seem so divided. I wish we'd all get along. Thinking about going on a vacation every four years ;)

     
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    MissDarthVader    September 27, 2013  

    I just don't understand why people don't respect other people's opinions. Not everyone is going to agree with you. Why isn't that okay?

    I'm glad you made this post.. I can't wait for these elections to be over because people all around have been just so cruel.

     
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    ChuckNorris    March 2012  

    @alyssaC:  I cannot believe the anger... Someone called an Aussie (who was someone else's friend!) "a mindless c-word" for his post about Obama, that the world thanked America for reelecting him.... It's so upsetting.

     
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    alyssaC    July 11, 2015   Colordo Springs, Co

    It's all just terrible, why does having a different opinion have to be such a bad thing?  I have an opinion and many people don't share that opinion but that doesn't mean I have to dislike that person and be down right rude to them.  Why can't people just be civil human beings, some people still act like mindless beasts who spew anger at others just because they think differently.  They rejoice in the rights they have but by degrading other people they are making it harder for people to act on their right to have an opinion and voice that opinion.

     
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    HelleCat    May 23, 2014   Tulsa

    What gets me is some of the ...whats the word...two faced bullshit I've seen.

    Like one girl I've known for 20 years, who has gone from voting for equality and women's rights, and pro choice...To literally writeing a 6 paragraph status about how all of us women voting for Obama are now going to hell and calling us baby killers.

    It's disgusting.

     
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    nyscpa2be    November 28, 2011  

    Wow - I though my feed was bad!  A few posts of "yeah" and "woo-hoo", and mine that I was saddened by the results, looking forward to 2016.  And I got defriended over it!  To be fair, this person isn't the smartest, and thought the election should be decided by Yankees vs Red Sox, but still, defriending?  Now I'm not nearly as upset!!!!  I just posted that I wasn't saying anymore anyways, the election is over, and that's all.    I truly feel bad for those of you who are witnessing such hate - that is awful.  (HUGS)

     
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    @MissDarthVader:  Umm If I recall in another thread, two bees were giving you their explanations on why they aproved of Obamacare since you didn't. You said people "are lazy" in your city. One bee's mom even had cancer. What did you respond? I believe you said you didn't want to see "sob stories".  Cruel if you ask me. 

    Anyway, I agree with you OP. Things seem way  out of control. Disrespect on another level.

     
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    fvsoccer    November 4, 2011   Colorado

    I think it is sad that we can't get behind our elected officials for the time being and try to move forward and instead we just keep being devisive. The people have spoken, move on and look forward to trying to change things the next election cycle!

     
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    BoiledPNut    April 2012  

    I agree.  People on my FB are calling people names, saying they are stupid, ignorant, moochers, etc.  It's really sad.  I feel like we should all be able to act like adults, but apparently I'm expecting too much from some.  

     
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    Milo    May 11, 2013   Oz

    Don't talk politics with people you know. 

     

    More than happy to talk/debate online with strangers. But posting crap on Facebook? It's down right stupid. Keep ya status' clear of politics! 

     
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    Jabberwocky    December 31, 2013   Japan

    Yeah, Facebook is full of stupid right now.  I'm thisclose to starting a drinking game over a post I saw with 60 comments arguing about whether Obama is really black or not.

    Most of the crazy will blow over soon.  Hang in there.

     
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    BoiledPNut    April 2012  

    I was just called a stupid, uneducated idiot for voting for Obama...all by someone I don't even know (friend of a "friend").  WOW!

     
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    mandy102        Novato, CA

    I saw a lot of hurtful things on FB last night and it's still going on right now. It's very sad.

     
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    Shosha1    April 14, 2012   Ottawa, Ontario

    As a Canadian, where we master in political apathy, it's truly weird to see how emotional people get over elections, and yet heartening.  At least there's interest, whereas here most people couldn't care less.  I'm not sure which is more depressing - the lack of caring, or the caring so much that it becomes personal. 

     
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    ChuckNorris    March 2012  

    @BoiledPNut:  Are you in Australia? Because that's also what that person was called on my husband's FB.

     
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    BoiledPNut    April 2012  

    @ChuckNorris:  Nope, I'm in the US!  I understand that people are very passionate about this, but it's getting ridiculous!  I cleaned up my FB list this morning though.  I guarantee you that people only say stuff like that because they can hide behind a computer screen.  It's still sad though.

     
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    retreadbride    July 31, 2011   bristol PA

    Here is the question " are you better off today than you will be in four years" your personal response defines your mindset over the election

     
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    MsCarabiner    May 30, 2012   UT wedding in HI

    http://www.digiday.com/etc/buzzfeed-helps-you-replace-politics-with-cats/ - cats have gotten me through this election season :)

     
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    Kjeff760    September 13, 2012   Littleton, Colorado

    I agree, someone on my FB posted "Well you got your way morons" Really? Your going to just outright call some of your friends that? Wow...

     
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    ChuckNorris    March 2012  

    @BoiledPNut:  Definitely hiding behind a computer screen... Which is scary because they do not know who they are pissing off at the other side. Anyway, glad it wasn't you, I was just going to apologize on behalf of my husband's friend. But, I'm sorry that they said that to you anyway!!

     
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    SouthernGirl    March 15, 2014   Alabama

    I deactivated my Facebook yesterday and won't be reactivating it for a while. I got tired of getting messages from people who knew I supported Obama telling me that I was the reason this country was doomed, that I was ignorant, that I supported the murder of babies and that I had ruined their children's lives and so forth. I also got one that said they hoped I was happy because now no one would be able to find a job now that Obama was back in office. There was even some mention of me voting for the antichrist? Eh. 

    I never really talked about my political affiliations on Facebook so I was surprised to be getting messages. 

     ETA: The most ridiculous things I saw were people talking about they hoped the Mayans were right about the world ending because they couldn't take another four years of Obama. Really?

     
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    Dr_dazzle    June 14, 2014   Yorktown, Virginia

    I won't be on Facebook for a while either. It just upsets me. I'll stick with WB for now. 

     
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    ImaStarr    October 12, 2013   Gainesville, FL

    MsCarabiner

    Amazing!  

     
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    crayfish    September 11, 2010   Berkeley, CA

    Wow, my FB wall is calm and friendly. The Romney supporters were very calm and congratulatory, and the Obama supporters are beaming with happiness and pointing out what parts of the next 4 years they are looking forward to.

    Honestly, if I had a family member who thought I was going to hell for aborting a child conceived through rape, i'd be happy that I knew how crazy they are so I could axe that negative energy from my life.

     
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    BoiledPNut    April 2012  

    @ChuckNorris:  Aww thank you!  You are too sweet.  :)

     
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    LaTortuga    June 1, 2013   Ohio

    @alyssaC:  Thank you. I voted for Romney. It doesn't mean I have issue with those who voted Obama. I have tried my best to stay offline the past few weeks but seriously this is crazy. I had hoped to return to the net today with a return to normal... alas it is not the case. The woman that was going to alter my dress is not so polarized Ihad to talk to another seamstress. It is really sad to see all this over an election :(

     
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    mandy102        Novato, CA

    @SouthernGirl:  I saw that about the Mayans too. One of my friends said that maybe the Mayans were right so start praying.

     
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    sarahjc0015    September 15, 2012  

    People are being really rude. I saw something about having a terriorist as our president for another 4 years. Another one was ohio can burn in hell. Seriously??? I think people are taking their political views too far on social media.

     
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    lolot    August 24, 2013   Rocky Mountains

    Wow, crazy.  My facebook has been ebullient today - I haven't seen too many nutjob comments, even though I'm from a very conservative state and lots of my "friends" are conservative.  One guy said he was looking forward to the Mayans being right about the world ending in 2012.  Right, cause that's better than another 4 years of Obama.  Psshh.

    It really is an excuse for all the crazies to fly their racist, uneducated flags!  (Not that all Republicans are that way at all, but Obama does tend to bring out a lot of those types of comments.)

     
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    abbyful    June 7, 2011   Kansas City

    This is exactly why I don't post anything political on Facebook.

     
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    artichokey    June 16, 2012  

    @crayfish:  Mine too. Almost everyone is over the moon about defeating the marriage and voter id amendments here in Minnesota. A few Romney folk posted sad-bear statuses but nothing nasty or accusatory. I did hide one convo about how being gay is a sin but I suppose you're bound to get one crazy in the bunch some times. Mostly though, it's sunshine and happiness in my FB feed.

     
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    Bebealways    August 9, 2013  

    Even the people posting passionately on my facebook and hating on STUFF and policies has steered clear of actual individuals they know as a target of hate, thankfully. Even the slightly more... uh... intense posts... aren't targeting individuals.

     

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