A MOH who WANTS to be involved [rant]

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

thats asking way too much of moh and one being not orangized 4 days til wedding….

Post # 4
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Newbee
  • Wedding: February 2012

It’s been a week so I assume it’s all over and done with. Curious if you dumped her.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

@megz06:  Wow. That is crazy. It’s horrible when a trainwreck is about to happen in front of you and you know there’s nothing you can do to stop it. I’m sorry that you have to see your best friend fuck up her wedding (though it sounds like the most important detail – the groom – isn’t of the best quality anyway) while she damages your friendship.

I would second a PP in being interested in an update, though. 

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

OP, congratulations on your pregnancy! I hope you’re feeling ok. 🙂 I’m also glad to hear that the wedding went more or less ok, especially considering how things were sounding.

I don’t mean this in an offensive way, but sometimes we just outgrow people. It’s not a case of “I’m better than you,” but more of “I’m too old for this.” (Not even chronologically, but as far as maturity goes.) Your friend sounds like she is emotionally younger than you, and so you’ve probably outgrown her. It doesn’t mean you can’t still care, but don’t be surprised if your relationship with her changes, or fizzles (even temporarily).

However, if her new husband really is a controlling alcoholic, maybe try to keep communication open even a little bit, as there’s a good chance she will need your help down the road – maybe even to get out of this marriage.

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