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A ring I never expected

posted 1 year ago in Proposals
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    ktisthatbees    May 1, 2011   Atlanta GA/Charleston SC

    If you read my last post, you know that although we had decided to get married next year, we had both decided for financial reasons that there would be no engagement ring (read: I told him not to worry about it) While I was somewhat bummed, I am a practical enough person to realize that a financially sound future is far more important than a sparkly piece of jewelry.

    Then I found that little slip of yellow paper, and immediately my mind went to, "That must mean he has a ring! But how?!! He couldn't have possibly saved up for it already! I thought we decided no ring?"

    Then I had all but convinced myself that I had imagined the little slip of paper.

    Fast forward to this past 4th of July weekend. Saturday night, we take a walk in the riverfront park in Charleston, he is acting so so strange, I naively wonder why, because, truthfully, a proposal was the last thing I expected. We find a quiet bench, we asks me why I love this park. Que quizzical "What have you been sniffing?" look from me. He says, "so I have a question for you" He gets down on one knee and asks, "Will you do me the honor of marrying me May 1st of next year?" I cry (woah did not anticipate the girly sissy crying), nod yes, and a random crowd of tourists walking behind us erupts in cheers and congratulatory shouts. That made me laugh so hard, i don't know why.

    It was simple, it was sweet, and the coolest part about the ring? It was my mother's ring from her marriage to my Dad. FI had it changed to white gold and it sparkles like a new penny. I love it because it's an heirloom, and I love it because it makes me think of him every time I look at it.

    So there you have it!! I am all "official" now.

     
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    dance    July 23, 2011   Alberta, Canada

    Yay!  Congrats on your sweet proposal story!  I would have laughed at all the random passers-by too haha!

     
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    june42011    January 29, 2012   NORTH DAKOTA

    How sweet!!! What an amazing surprise!! And I'm sooo jealous! This was the first July 4th in like 5 years that I wasn't in Charleston! Congrats on being "all official now" :)

     
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    rlsulli1598@verizon.net       oregon

    Oh, such a wonderful story!  How lovely that he did that!!  Congratulations!  :)

     
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    mishelleez    November 5, 2010   DW- Bahamas

    CONGRATS! What a cute story!

     
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    Miss Austin    October 10, 2010   Fairhope,AL

    That gave me chills:)  Congrats

     
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    hope1275    August 7, 2010   NH

    Well, you were "official" before, but now you have a sparkly, too! Congratulations!!! :)

     
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    ktisthatbees    May 1, 2011   Atlanta GA/Charleston SC

    I forgot to tell you guys! As we were walking away from the park he asked me, "NOW why do you love this park?" I answered, "because it's where you proposed"

    Gag, so sappy, I know :)

     
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    sudslover       Northern California

    Kudos to FI for surprising you!  What a lovely story.  Congratulations

     
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    brittanymichelle    June 5, 2010   Cheyenne, Wy

    well lets see it girl!

     
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    ktisthatbees    May 1, 2011   Atlanta GA/Charleston SC

    I couldn't find my camera charger for a while but just found it again. I will post a pic soon!! Ring porn coming soon to a theater near you

     
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    scrapsoflife    December 19, 2008   San Diego

    Such a cute proposal story! And that is so sweet that he proposed with your mother's ring! Congratulations on your engagement!

     
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    future mrs kirsch    July 24, 2010   Ferndale, MI

    What a great story! Congratulations!

     
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    TheFutureMcBride    August 2010   Virginia

    How sweet!

     
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    Ryansgirl    October 22, 2011   Canada

    I love that story, congratulations!!!!

     
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    locket    September 25, 2010  

    aww how sweet congrats!

     
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    YSQueen    October 9, 2011   Atlanta

    Pics....pics.....

     
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    Mrs.MedinaJr    November 11, 2011   Houston

    that is soo beautiful congrats!

     
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    sweetpea1031    March 19, 2011  

    Oh that's WONDERFUL!! Congratulations! Your story gave me goose-bumps.

     
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    jenandchris    October 22, 2011   live in Brooklyn, getting married in MA

    that is so sweet!  congrats!

     
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    cardigan    January 7, 2011   Austin, TX

    So sweet! Congratulations!

     
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    littlemissmoo    July 18, 2010   London, UK

    That's such a lovely proposal story. And how sweet of him to go and get you the ring anyways even though you said not to. Congrats!

     
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    mrswolf    December 12, 2012  

    Wonderful proposal story, simple and sweet. Congrats

     
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    whiteorchid    September 3, 2011   Savannah, GA/Wedding in Columbus, OH

    That's adorable! I'm so happy for you! Can't wait to see the bling :)

     
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    pat291    July 17, 2011   canada

    pics please!

     
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    lulu mae    January 8, 2012   NY

    oh that is so sweet!!!! :) that is the sweetest thing I think I might have ever heard for engagement stories... Congratulations!!!! :)

     
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    SapphireSun    July 9, 2010   Vancouver, BC

    So cute! Congrats

     
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    ktisthatbees    May 1, 2011   Atlanta GA/Charleston SC

    Ok so i FINALLY got around to taking some pics! Sorry for the delay!! I had a little mini photo shoot with the ring and as you can see, the furbaby decided to get in on the action

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    MidnightSun    December 31, 2017  

    Aww! What a sweet story! And gorgeous ring btw!

     
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    EmeraldR    May 1, 2011   New Jersey

    @ktisthatbees: Congratulations on your romantic proposal and your upcoming wedding.

    And, hey, we're date twins!

     
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    Loribeth    December 1, 2010   Michigan (Married in Savannah, GA)

    Very pretty!  And what a story!!!!  Congratulations!

     
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    Ms. Meowerson    May 12, 2012  

    @ktisthatbees: lol i love the photo with your cat's paw.  it's like he is saying, "Mine?"

     
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    diva81esq    November 11, 2011   DMV, PG Cnty~Ceremony in NC

    Awwww...I LOVE that story, CONGRATS!!  Beautiful ring!!

     
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    artwyopie    October 20, 2012   Northern MN

    what a wonderful story. and your ring is beautiful. congrats!

     
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    babebabe06    June 11, 2011   las cruces nm

    aww i love it!!!!

     
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    Allyser    September 1, 2010  

    This is so sweet!!!!

     
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    ktisthatbees    May 1, 2011   Atlanta GA/Charleston SC

    Thanks everyone! I appreciate the well wishes! 

     

    @EmeraldR: Date Twin!! How cool is that?! less than 8 months out!

     
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    bryanneb61    May 5, 2012   Columbus, Ohio

    Lovely ring!  :)

     
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    diva81esq    November 11, 2011   DMV, PG Cnty~Ceremony in NC

    Awww....CONGRATS!!

     

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