(Closed) A sad sad day….

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1281 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Oh my gosh, my heart breaks for you.  I can understand why you would be so emotionally drawn to cancelling your formal wedding, but wait a couple weeks until the feelings are less raw before you decide anything.  I’m sure your Nana and Uncle would have wanted you to have the wedding of your dreams. 

Post # 4
53 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

@lisha_1988:  I’m SO sorry!I would give you a big hug if i could. I think it’s absolutly normal because you just want to have something happy happen.

I think you should wait it out for a little. Dont make any huge decisions yet. You could just be reacting and maybe regret it later that you didn’t have that wedding you were planning because of this. Maybe take a mini honeymoon? or have an event to focus on for a little while? like a party or outing with friends?

If you still feel you want something now in a week or so then go for it.

Post # 5
1064 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

i am so sorry 🙁 It truly is a sad day..i lost my mother-in-law to be in March and it was (is) devastating. Shewas so happy about the wedding and always saying she wouldn’t live till the day..we lost her and it was terrible..for a week i could not think about the wedding, though people at the funeral did come to me and advising us mot to cancel it. It came the day qhen i asked Fiance if he wantes to delay the wedding. He was silent. Then he said “no. Everything’s planned and it’s what she wanted the most. Let’s have a beautiful wedding and remember her through the day. She will be there, with us, smilling, in spirit”

Post # 6
7339 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Oh my goodness, I am soooo sorry for your lost. Take some time for yourself to grief and then go back to wedding planning. I’m sending huge internet hugs!!!!!!

Post # 7
6248 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 1900

*hugs*  I’m sorry for your double loss.

I think it’s normal to put a new perspective on your life after you experience serious loss like this.

Post # 9
8884 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

I’m so sorry for your losses *hugs*

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