A Strange Phenomenon

posted 3 years ago in October 2013
Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I have had this feeling for months!  I’m stuck between the “It’s still 2 more months until I’m married… ugh” and then “It’s ONLY TWO MORE MONTHS?!?!?!” Such a strange feeling!

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I feel exactly the same way! I’ve had a long engagement (2.5 years) so I feel like I’ve put a lot of things off because I had so much time. One day last week I woke up and was like, “holy crap… I have 2 months!!” Now I feel anxious and I’m trying to get a bunch of little things done.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I feel the same way!  When we hit below the 60-day mark, my mind went into freak out mode.  I’m feeling anxious, but also excited because the loose ends are coming together and all of the big purchases have been made.  Now to check off the small items on my list and work on some DIY projects!!

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

You’re not alone! I wish the wedding could be here NOW and at the same time I am like, “56 days is NOT ENOUGH TIME!” I have waaaay too much left to do.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@delovely13:  I feel the SAME WAY! It’s unbelievable. Today we are at 69 days left to go, and when I saw my countdown go from the 70s to the 60s, I was like hooooly crap! On the one hand that seems so far away, and on the other I cannot believe we’re so close! It’s amazing how you feel two completely opposite ways about it. 

The one thing that is driving me crazy is when people say “so, are you all done with the wedding plans?!” I want to PUNCH things when people ask me that! NO we are NOT done! There is no such thing! haha 

 

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Ditto! I feel like there is so much left to do, but I am also a control freak and I am having trouble delegating. Gotta let some stuff go!

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Omg, I totally get this. I’m calling it wedding ennui. I’m ready to go, but OMG IT IS ONLY 2 MONTHS AWAY but holy crap it is taking forever but OMG AM I READY YET?

 

I’m ready for it to be here, I’m so bored and DONE with planning.

Post # 10
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I hadn’t really noticed the date until now… 2 months… 2 MONTHS… freaking out just a tad. I have a LONG list of stuff to get done and now only 2 months! Ahhhhhh….

 

Post # 11
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1312 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’m in the same boat. Good to know that i am not crazy LOL

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Oh man, I’m freaking out a bit too. I just counted up my weekends and realized I only have two weekends left where I haven’t got anything planned before the wedding! 

 

Time is going to FLY by!! Eek!

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

YES, I relate to this exactly! Just recently I was falling asleep and realized there are only 8 (!!!!) weekends until the wedding and I just about freaked out. However, there really isn’t all that much I still have to do, so it’s not like we are running out of time. Throughout the day I go back and forth between being “OMG so excited!” and just feeling completely over it. 

Post # 14
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667 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’m there especially since I think we’re done with everything we can right now. We need to do dance lessons still but everything else has to wait until the RSVPs are in, and even then everything is picked out (place cards, escort cards, etc) we just need to do the seating chart.

Now that invitations are out its just the nervous energy of “omg I want to know who’s coming already!”

Post # 15
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1952 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@thatredheadedbride:  

@HeyKaraoke:  

@HobbyLobbyist:  

@classyashley: Eeek so close ladies!

We sent our invites out in early July, RSVP was 4 days ago. EVERYONE has said they’re coming, which is a bit of a shock, cos I expected some people to say no…guess we got in early? 😉 I’m freaking out, I need to get my dress taken in but NO ONE can help. We’re getting our rings next week and after that it’s just decorations, ordering the rest of the food – we’re having a lowkey do – rehearsals and batchelor/batchelorette parties… I’M FREAKING OUT!!

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

I know exactly how you feel! Our wedding is 88 days away… not that I’m counting, lol… it feels like it will be here in no time when I look at the big picture, but it also feels like time is dragging so slowly!

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