(Closed) A vent about “you still have plently of time…”

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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6598 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

If it makes you feel better I haven’t made my appointment for my first fitting yet and I am getting married Aug 21st!

I am booking tonight for early July!

I think 3 weeks is a little close – My dress shop sets up the first fitting for 6-8 weeks out!

Good Luck!

Post # 4
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330 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Seriously. I think I’ve been so used to hearing this, that the fact that we are 4 months out now, just snuck up on me!

Post # 5
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141 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I know how you feel! I was wanting my BM’s to have their dresses ordered before May was over…because I knew that they take a loong time to come in. But whenever I would mention the dresses and complain about them ordering them, everybody would say “Oh you have plenty of time, the wedding isn’t until August.”

Sooo, I just got them ordered last week. Which realllly makes me nervous because I like to have everything under control and my way. When I went last week with one of my BM’s to finally order them, she told me that with regular shipping they would be here August 13th. I looked at her like she was crazy and said “My wedding is the 7th!” So, lucky me had to pay $15 rush shipping on each dress, and now they’re scheduled to be here July 14th. So I’m praying they fit like a glove and don’t need any alterations because I don’t have time!

Post # 6
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I know.  I get this ALL the time since my wedding isn’t for 11 more months.  Not “plenty of time” in the wedding biz people!  I just say a little prayer and try to give a terse smile.  They have NO idea.

Post # 7
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724 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I think with most things, you should buy when you find something you like!

But with fittings I think the reason they say that is because you want to make sure it’ll fit you perfectly. If you lose/gain weight at all then that might change and then you’ll need to do yet another one (which is $$$). I read that you start your fittings and alterations 2 months before your wedding. So in that cast, you wouldn’t need to start until mid-late August, depending on when in October you’re getting married.

But that’s just the “suggestion.”

Post # 8
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233 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Maybe she said it because in the world of wedding dress fittings, you do have plenty of time!

My first fitting is July 10th for an August 15th wedding. My second fitting is july 30th, and my final fitting if needed is the week of the wedding!

Post # 9
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1079 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I had my first fitting over 2 months before the wedding. The seamstress has had women come in really early and have extra alterations because they gained or lost weight so I didn’t want to go in too early. She said to do the LAST fitting at least two weeks before the wedding! I’d call another seamstress who understands wedding dress fittings.

Post # 10
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279 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

My wedding is in October and the dresses will be delivered in August. I’m a bit nervous about this because I am a rather short bride (5 feet even!) and I know I’m going to have to have a LOT of altering done on my dress. All I can say is keep to your own schedule. You know best.

Post # 11
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’m having the opposite problem.. I’m getting married in October and everyone keeps telling me I need to get everything done NOW NOW NOW.  Not that I’m even procrastinating, but I know the timeline for things and we’re right on schedule!

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