"A wedding just isn't our idea of fun"

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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234 posts
Helper bee

she sounds like a pill. :/

Post # 4
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517 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Ewww (I know, childish but that was my first thought). She sounds pretentious and annoying, like who the hell is she to tell you “weddings are meaningless to me blah blah blah” – I wouldn’t even bother to invite her. 

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Tincangirl:  umm….so she basically said that because some people get divorced, she doesn’t support your marriage…

what a great friend.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

that’s really selfish and rude of her to say. i mean – she hasn’t even been invited and she felt she needed to pre empt your invitation with a monologue on why she doesn’t like weddings? rude. i’m sorry you’re dealing with that.

Post # 7
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405 posts
Helper bee

@Tincangirl:  “It’s a challenge to love your friends sometimes.”

Yeah….. I get that.  🙂  

Hopefully it works out and she can make it.  She can always carpool with someone.  🙂

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Tincangirl:  I’d probably just respond with something snarky like, “Fortunately for you, you’re not invited!”

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Yeah, that’s gross. What a way to behave toward a friend.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2000

Projecting much? Christ, how about just a yes or no answer next time…

Post # 11
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1980 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Hahaha that is such a bitchy thing to say I can’t stop laughing.

Post # 12
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5664 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Well that was a silly stupid thing to say.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Yeeesh, rude much!  I can’t imagine saying that to anyone, let alone a friend.

Post # 14
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3762 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Your wedding is about the fact that YOU believe in marriage. It has nothing to do with whether or not SHE ever wants to get married or the fact that her bf’s previous marriage was a disaster. Her stance is just plain self-centered. Sorry you are dealing with that! 

Post # 15
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290 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@Tincangirl:  So, this third party just sent you an unsolicited email?  Wowzers!  I would be tempted not to invite this “friend” and use the spot for someone who wants to be there. 

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

With friends like that, who needs enemies….

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