(Closed) AA brides, are you have anything other than AA BM in your party?

posted 7 years ago in African-American
Post # 3
726 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Why is it anyone’s business what color your friends are? Just when I thought I’d heard everything on this site…

Post # 4
1041 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

My bridal party will be multicultural and no one has said anything about it. But even in the AA community there are closed minded people, you just have ignore them.

Post # 6
3303 posts
Sugar bee

One of my bridal party will be AA but she is so light, she often gets mistaken for being white. My other two Bridesmaid or Best Man potentials are PR and Portuguese. It doesn’t bother me because these are my friends I grew up with- I didn’t pick them because of race. Not sure why anyone would even care.

Post # 7
214 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Seriously??? Someone asked you that?? Why does it matter?

Anyhoo… my 3 closest friends who are in my wedding party are black but I have a lot of white friends also.. But we are having a small destination wedding and only have 3 people on each side of us..

Post # 8
2539 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I am doing half and half. i have 9 bm (3 are not AA), 3 jr bridesmaids (all AA), 3 flowers girls (onle who is AA, the other are rican) …. my Fiance and i are very diverse people. but why someone would ask you that is crazy!!!!!

here a is my wedding party. i have posted this pic many times on the bee. i didnt block there faces because alll there girls are my girl/sister/FSIL so they dont care!

Post # 9
50 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Crazy that someone would actually ask you that! Our wedding party is multicultural, both groomsmen and bridesmaids. Sometimes ignorance and stupidity should be ignored. I could careless who thinks anything of my bridal party and my friends.

Post # 10
241 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

One of my BMs is Japanese. I wouldn’t have asked if I didn’t love her to pieces!

Post # 12
91 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2011 - Catholic church followed by a botanical conservatory

Wow, I read AA and thought you meant Alcoholics anonymous, like people wanna know why don’t you have more support from members as your BMs. LOL, I must be tired. Anyway, yeah it’s all about who you want up there with you! 🙂

Post # 13
1489 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Vtown: One of my best friends is Chinese and she is my Matron of Honor… I have a mixed group of friends and no one would find it a bad thing. Its your wedding so have who YOU want in YOUR wedding

Post # 14
118 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’ve got 2 AA, 1 Indian, 1 caucasian, 1 AA that looks biracial.  My bunch is a range of gorgeous women.  Have the women that you love surrounding you and pray for the people that don’t understand that its 2011, not 1911.

Post # 15
994 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I can’t believe someone was ignorant enough to ask that. I would have said “I don’t pick my friends by the color of their skin.”

Post # 16
7300 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

People are stupid. 

My Maid/Matron of Honor and two of my bridesmaids (my sisters) are black and the other two are white. 
No big deal. 

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