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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    I don't think there is a thread specifically dedicated to AA brides yet?  So I'll be the first :D to start one:

    1. what's your wedding date

    2. how long was your engagement

    3. how long have you been dating

    4. what budget are you trying to stay within

    5. and how much stuff are you diy'g?

    6. what part of the country are you located in?!

    I'll start even though I'm not engaged to get this party started :D....

    1. No wedding date, I'm still in the preengagement stages...

    2. Nope no answers

    3. we've been dating for 18 months and two days :D

    4. we'll be staying as inexpensive as possible because we have huge bills

    5. we are diy'g probably the entire thing except the venue...

     
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    mimosa    May 29, 2010   NC

    1. 5-29-10

    2. a year and 5 months

    3. 4.5 years bout time! lol

    4. eh.. originally $20K but now it's up to $25-$30k.. give or take

    5. probably.. nothing, I'm not much of a DIYer

    6. I live in the southeast, North Carolina!

    Hey everyone!Smile

     
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    surkim    September 2, 2012  

    I'll join, even though I am probably a looong way away from engagement. :(

    1. Some day in the future.

    2. It will probably be just long enough.

    3. Four years (by my watch) in a week!  4.5 by his... I don't know when.

    4. That will be figured once I have a job.  I can't see it being terribly expensive.

    5. I'm not certain.  Probably a lot, it seems more personal to do it that way.

    6. SW VA

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    oops i forgot to answer number six?!

    6. we live in louisiana, but i'm from tn, i have no idea where we will be getting hitched or when :D

     
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    91011Bride    September 10, 2011   Destination wedding

    1. what's your wedding date - 9/10/11

    2. how long was your engagement - not "officially" engaged, but I'm guessing it will be at least a year long engagement

    3. how long have you been dating - 9 months

    4. what budget are you trying to stay within - since we're also buying a house while planning this wedding, our wedding budget is hopefully sticking between $10,000 and $15,000. 

    5. and how much stuff are you diy'g? - As much as I can fit into my schedule.  I know for sure I'm designing the entire wedding, but I may not have time to actually make everything.  I'll likely DIY 50-60% of the wedding

    6. what part of the country are you located in?! - San Francisco Bay Area

     
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    JamaicaBride    May 14, 2011   Charlotte, NC

    1. what's your wedding date

    No idea...but we are leaving for Jamaica on December 20th

    2. how long was your engagement

    Almost 3 years

    3. how long have you been dating

    3 years and 2 months

    4. what budget are you trying to stay within

    I am not a party to planning but from what I have managed to pull out of the FI...about 30K including airline tickets

    5. and how much stuff are you diy'g?

    my hair and makeup

    6. what part of the country are you located in?!

    Southeast. Charlotte, NC

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    @jabride: i didn't know that you didn't know the wedding date either?! i'd seriously be going bonkers right now!!

     
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    JamaicaBride    May 14, 2011   Charlotte, NC

    @crebre...I am so busy at work these days that I don't think about it most of the time...LOL! I drove myself so crazy the first couple of months trying to get him to tell me details that I think I wore myself out Laughing

     
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    Chocolate Delight    November 27, 2010   Wylie, TX

    1. what's your wedding date - December 4, 1995.   Hubby and I are renewing our vows on November 27, 2010 on the eve of our 15th wedding anniversary.

    2. how long was your engagement.   So long ago I don't remember.  HA! HA!

    3. how long have you been dating.  We dated for 3 years before we got married.

    4. what budget are you trying to stay within.  Hubby says $20,000 but I think that is wishful thinking.

    5. and how much stuff are you diy'g?  Not a damn thing . . . don't have the patience, the creativity or the time. . .Buying stuff or paying for other people's DIY stuff is modern form of DIY and that should count for something.

    6. what part of the country are you located in?!  Just like another country - Dallas, Texas . . .Howdy y'all!!!

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    @chocolate delight: your responses had me over here laughing my butt off!!!

    @jabride: i cannot wait to see the pictures!! he's going to knock your socks off!! do you know how long y'all are staying?

     
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    wifey122209    December 22, 2009   New York

    1. what's your wedding date: 12/22/09 woo hoo! 18 more days.. I am getting married at the city hall in NYC. and then a bigger one in a year or 2 down in NC.

    2. how long was your engagement: 3 months

    3. how long have you been dating: 5 years

    4. what budget are you trying to stay within: Well considering the type that I am having.. Mine is $2,000 :)

    5. and how much stuff are you diy'g? Nada

    6. what part of the country are you located in?! I am in NYC but orginally from NC!

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    @wifey: 18 days how awesome?! are y'all having a dinner or something like that afterwards? i think it's cool and romantic that y'all are going to the nyc city hall!! do y'all have a honeymoon planned?

     
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    tea       norcal

    i'll join even though i'm not engaged yet. and am half asian. lol

    1. what's your wedding date: i was told sometime after i finish grad school so maybe in 2011?!

    2. how long was your engagement: it'll be short, 3-6 months [i know!]

    3. how long have you been dating; almost 5 years, all long distance

    4. what budget are you trying to stay within: i'm hoping to have $15,000 saved up by the time we get married

    5. and how much stuff are you diy'g?: probably about 80%. i suck at estimating but i'm doing A TON: all stationary: save the dates, invites, programs, thank you cards, escort cards, etc, decorations, centerpieces, and hopefully personal flowers

    6. what part of the country are you located in?!: i'm in the bay area. california baby!

     
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    wifey122209    December 22, 2009   New York

    @crebre I am so excited! Well since its so close to Christmas and the families will be together we do not have anything planned at the moment for afterwards. So we may wing it Wink As far as a honeymoon we want to go to Puerto Rico after the bigger wedding so for now I have 2 comped rooms at Harrah's Casino in Atlantic City! So after the wedding and the pics we are going down for 2 nights and will be back by Christmas Eve.

    FYI I still do not know what I am doing with my hair for my wedding. I will be getting micros and need any suggestions please!

     
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    91011Bride    September 10, 2011   Destination wedding

    @JamaicaBride - That is truly romantic that your SO has planned the entire wedding.  Congrats and can't wait to see the pictures. 

     
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    JamaicaBride    May 14, 2011   Charlotte, NC

    @crebre & 91011...we will be coming back on Christmas Eve and everyone keeps telling me I am going to be blown away. I can't wait to see everything and I am hoping that the pictures turn out excellent. I know FI has expensive tastes so I know everything will be top notch. I am so happy...16 days...I am getting my hair braided this Sunday so the pain will have a couple of weeks to subside =)

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    @wifey: definitely check the natural hair post a bit further down in the AA board... I think it's so cool that y'all are getting married so close to christmas (i'd LOVE a christmas wedding)... and two nights in atlantic city sounds awesome and fun!!!

    @ja: girl you better come back with pictures. i'd currently be passing out lol!!!! btw will we finally get the big reveal on your ring when you come back?!

     
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    Can I answer? 

    1. August 8, 2009.

    2. 364 day long engagement

    3. 4 years as of last month :) (almost 4 months married!)

    4. I'll pass on this one :) 

    5. Nothing actually. I did try for a day but sadly gave up.

    6. NYC 

    I'm glad to see this thread!!

     
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    JamaicaBride    May 14, 2011   Charlotte, NC

    @crebre...yes...I will finally be able to show off my babies =) I think FI made a weird request by asking me to wait until I have both rings...but he did design them as a set...and he really does't ask for much...so I don't mind waiting to show them off.

    My only request when FI asked me about my dream wedding was top of the line videography and photography since it will just be the two of us.

     
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    Aubergold    May 2012   DC metro

    1. what's your wedding date

    Tentatively July 23, 2011

    2. how long was your engagement

    According to some hints he's been dropping, it should be about 18 months

    3. how long have you been dating

    5.5 years

    4. what budget are you trying to stay within

    20K, crosses fingers

    5. and how much stuff are you diy'g?

    stds, invitations, programs, menus, some food, centerpieces, favor boxes

    6. what part of the country are you located in?!

    DC metro srea

     
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    KMSull    August 7, 2010   Lexington, KY (via Atlanta, GA)

    CRE, every time I see this thread I think you're asking for alcoholics anonymous brides...

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    @KM: nah lol! just african american ones :D

    @msswan: glad to see you here!!! congratulations on being marired for four months!!

    @aubergold: i know some great folks up north let me know if you need a referral for a designer/doc coordinator, etc.

    @jabride: yeah i guess if he asked that you not show it, you cannot show it lol!! omg i can't wait to see the pictures!! i bet they are stunning!!

     
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    MsMamaBear       Atlanta

    Not engaged yet, but......

    1. what's your wedding date?
    TBA, but I'm hoping for an October wedding

    2. how long was your engagement?
    It won't be longer than 6months.

    3. how long have you been dating?
    A year in two weeks!!

    4. what budget are you trying to stay within?
    I'm preferring to keep the actual wedding/reception $5K and under.

    5. and how much stuff are you diy'g?
    The invites, STDs and program

    6. what part of the country are you located in?!
    South, Atlanta

     
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    Aubergold    May 2012   DC metro

    Thanks Cre!

     
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    Miss Prissy    09/04/2009   Charlotte, NC

    1. what's your wedding date-09/04/2009

    2. how long was your engagement-1 year and a half

    3. how long have you been dating-9 years-

    4. what budget are you trying to stay within- 8,000-10,000

    5. and how much stuff are you diy'g? I did a lot of stuff myself b/c I was emotionally involved:)

    6. what part of the country are you located in? charlotte, nc(ballantyne)

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    @miss prissy: emotionally involved, i like that phrase lol!!!

     
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    zebracakes    May 1, 2011   VA

    Hi everyone, I'll make this my first post (after a couple months of lurking WB Laughing)

    1. what's your wedding date

    8.15.10

    2. how long was your engagement

    12 months

    3. how long have you been dating

    4 years

    4. what budget are you trying to stay within

    initially it was 20K and has gone up and is still moving Undecided

    5. and how much stuff are you diy'g?

    I imagine I'll probably do some stuff myself, but not much.  I'm on the lazy side.

    6. what part of the country are you located in?!

    DMV area

     
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    91011Bride    September 10, 2011   Destination wedding

    Welcome to all the new African-American bees! 

     
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    CurlyDreamer    patiently waiting   Bay Area

    1. what's your wedding date: I'm still waiting. Boo! lol..

    2. how long was your engagement: N/a since I'm still waiting... boo! lol...

    3. how long have you been dating: One year offically.

    4. what budget are you trying to stay within: No idea at this point. I would say between $5k-$10k but that is without talking to the Boy.

    5. and how much stuff are you diy'g? I'd DIY the SDT's, invitations, centerpieces, favors, etc. Basically I'd like to DIY everything but the catering, set-up and clean-up!

    6. what part of the country are you located in?! Northern California.

     
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    JamaicaBride    May 14, 2011   Charlotte, NC

    @Miss Prissy....hello fellow Charlottean =)

     
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    Miss Prissy    09/04/2009   Charlotte, NC

    Thanks crebre80 and JamaicaBride hello to you as well!!!!:)

     
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    trugem    January 2011  

    @Chocolate Delight: I feel the same way about #5.

     
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    sportybride    July 23, 2010  

    Hello everyone --

     

    1. what's your wedding date - 7.23.2010

    2. how long was your engagement -13 months

    3. how long have you been dating - 4 years

    4. what budget are you trying to stay within - 25K, not including honeymoon

    5. and how much stuff are you diy'g? - invites, centerpieces

    6. what part of the country are you located in?! - East Coast, NYC & New England

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    welcome to the hive sporty bride!!! do you have a theme that you're going with for your wedding?

     
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    aqua    June 5, 2010  

    Can I just start by saying how glad I am to have found this thread. I've been on Bee for a few months but only discovered the AA thread last night. I have natural hair and you cannot find pictures anywhere that show my kind of hair in different styles. Luckily, I found a good hair dresser who specializes, but it's a shame that there are many tools out there for us.

    Here are my answers:

    1. what's your wedding date: June 5, 2010

    2. how long was your engagement: will be about 13.5 months by the time we're married

    3. how long have you been dating: 4 years

    4. what budget are you trying to stay within: $45K

    5. and how much stuff are you diy'g?: I will make some BM gifts to save a little money and to make it more personal. And I don't know if I can take credit for the following, but I will design menu and placecards online to be ordered, just like our invitations

    6. what part of the country are you located in?!: We getting ready to re-locate to New England

     
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    Golden139    August 13, 2011   live in Texas, wedding in Michigan

    Hi everyone! Smile

    1. what's your wedding date

    August 14, 2010 (only 8 more months - so excited!)

    2. how long was your engagement

    It will have been 19 months by the time we get married 

    3. how long have you been dating

    4 years and 8 months

    4. what budget are you trying to stay within

    Hopefully under $5000 (we're both struggling law students)

    5. and how much stuff are you diy'g?

    As much as humanly possible to keep costs down but still be able to maintain my sanity haha

    6. what part of the country are you located in?!

    New York, but originally from Dallas, TX (Hey Chocolate Delight!)

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    @aqua: yay glad you found it! definitely check the natural hair section...  i cannot wait to see your menu design!!

    @golden: hey!! are you getting married in dallas or nyc? i definitely think you can stay within budget if you diy a lot

     
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    Golden139    August 13, 2011   live in Texas, wedding in Michigan

    @crebre:  We're getting married in upstate NY with our ceremony at a chapel and reception at a state park, which means we won't really need to spend a lot on decorations or diy since both venues are so naturally beautiful.

    And congrats to you on your year and a half anniversary a little bit ago!!

     
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    naijabride    August 14, 2010   Houston

    1. what's your wedding date

    August 14, 2010

    2. how long was your engagement

    got engaged November 14, 09 so it will be a 9 month engagement!

    3. how long have you been dating

    2.5 years

    4. what budget are you trying to stay within

    under 25k

    5. and how much stuff are you diy'g?

    i like crafts so i'll probably be doing a lot!

    6. what part of the country are you located in?!

    Houston

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    @golden: thanks!! it was quite fun :D i think we both worked (bleh)... i love celebrating our dateversaries... i'm pretty sure whenever he pops the question i'll celebrate the engagement date a versaries.. lmao he may want to do it on the 1st of some month so that the days etc remain the same.

    @naija: how cool?! i cannot wait to see your diy projects!!

     

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